Servants Maintain a Low Profile

I would like to share with you one of the daily newsletters that I've received from Rick Warren.

Servants Maintain a Low Profile by Rick Warren

And all of you must put on the apron of humility, to serve one another; for the scripture says, "God resists the proud, but shows favor to the humble." 1 Peter 5:5 (TEV)

Real servants maintain a low profile. Servants don't promote or call attention to themselves. Instead of acting to impress and dressing for success, they "put on the apron of humility, to serve one another" (1 Peter 5:5 TEV).

If recognized for their service, they humbly accept it but don't allow notoriety to distract them from their work. Paul exposed a kind of service that appears to be spiritual but is really just a put-on, a show, an act to get attention. He called it "eyeservice," serving in order to impress people with how spiritual we are (Ephesians 6:6 KJV; Colossians 3:22 KJV).

This was a sin of the Pharisees. They turned helping others, giving, and even prayer into a performance for others. Jesus hated this attitude and warned, "When you do good deeds, don't try to show off. If you do, you won't get a reward from your Father in heaven" (Matthew 6:1 CEV).

Self-promotion and servanthood don't mix. Real servants don't serve for the approval or applause of others. They live for an audience of One. As Paul said, "If I were still trying to please men, I would not be a servant of Christ" (Galatians 1:10 NIV).

You won't find many real servants in the limelight; in fact, they avoid it whenever possible. They are content with quietly serving in the shadows.

Joseph is a great example. He didn't draw attention to himself, but quietly served Potiphar, then his jailer, then Pharaoh's baker and wine taster, and God blessed that attitude. When Pharaoh promoted him to prominence, Joseph still maintained a servant's heart, even with his brothers, who had betrayed him.

Unfortunately, many leaders today start off as servants but end up as celebrities. They become addicted to attention, unaware that always being in the spotlight blinds you.

You may be serving in obscurity in some small place, feeling unknown and unappreciated. Listen: God put you where you are for a purpose! He has every hair on your head numbered, and he knows your address.

A Spiritual Journey by Wind Walker

For the past four months I've had very little desire to write on my blog. My spirit has been broken because of the trials I am experiencing. I cannot seem to focus. Occasionally I would post something I find interesting and enjoyable.

I came across this poem by Wind Walker

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A Spiritual Journey by Wind Walker

Across from the mountains,
A little house sits in the trees,
I'm lost in tranquility,
As my soul tries to breathe.

White clouds moving slowly,
The breeze a calm still,
I'm caught in the moment,
As my heart starts to heal.

A piece of me,
In the startling blue sky,
As I spread my wings,
My soul starts to fly.

I fly to unknown places,
Where pain and hurt once dwelled,
As the memories flow pass me,
My eyes start to swell.

Tear drops drip slowly,
Down my cheeks,
The wind wipes them dry,
And gives me some peace.

Soaring so free,
Over water and land,
My Spirit Guide gently,
Takes me by my hand.

He shows me what was,
And what's meant to be,
And why my life,
Is so important it seems.

A long soar,
Like the eagle high,
I bow my head,
And I start to cry.

Back on the land,
Across from the trees,
I began to realize,
What healing means.

It means not to forget,
Let the past flow,
Of all the horrors,
One soul had to go.

To take the strengths,
And apply them to life,
Is a valuable lesson,
I've learnt this flight.

Alone in the sunset,
I watch it go down,
When I finally realize,
What peace I have found.

A Spiritual Journey by Wind Walker @FamilyFriendPoems

Update on my mom after her stroke

It's been almost three months since my mom had a stroke. She is still in the hospital, waiting to go into a nursing home. She still cannot walk, talk (except for some mumbling sounds) nor eat. She recognizes me and other family members. Judging by the expressions on her face, she seem to understand when I tell her certain things. When I call her she would look at me, which means she understands me.

I've heard of people who have had strokes similar to the one my mom had and they were able to talk, eat and walk again. I was told by the doctor that my mom gets physical therapy twice a week, and they've tried to give her speech therapy but she is unable to follow direction.

It's a good thing that I live only five minutes away from the hospital. Because of that I've been visiting her every evening since she's been there.

Life is very unpredictable.

In Hours Of Discouragement God Is Our Encouragement

I came across this beautiful poem that will bring comfort to a sad and lonely heart:

Sometimes we feel uncertain, and unsure of everything,
Afraid to make decisions, dreading what the day will bring.
We keep wishing it were possible to dispel all fear and doubt,
and to understand more readily just what life is all about.
God has given us the answers, which too often go unheeded,
But if we search His promises, we'll find everything that's needed.
To lift our faltering spirits and renew our courage, too.
For there's absolutely nothing too much for God to do.
For the Lord is our salvation, and our strength in every fight.
Our redeemer and protector, our eternal guiding light.
He has promised to sustain us, he's our refuge from all harms.
And underneath this refuge, are the everlasting arms.
So cast your burden on Him, Seek His counsel when distressed.
And go to Him for comfort, when you're lonely and oppressed.
For God is our encouragement in trouble and in trials.
And in suffering and in sorrow, he will turn our tears to smiles.

Helen Steiner Rice

But they that wait upon the Lord....

Smoking infront of a Hospital??

The following is taken from the back of the SDA Hymnal:

My dear friend, I hope everything is going happily with you and that you are as well physically as you are spiritually.

Your body, you know, is the temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you since you received him from God. You are not your own property; you have been bought and paid for. That is why you should use your body for the glory of God.

Whatever you eat, whatever you drink, whatever you do at all, do it for the glory of God.

There is no need to worry; but if there is anything you need, pray for it, asking God for it with prayer and thanksgiving, and that peace of God, which is so much greater than we can understand, will guard your hearts and your thoughts, in Christ Jesus.

Finally, brothers, fill your minds with everything that is true, everything that is noble, everything that is good and pure, everything that we love and honour, and everything that can be thought virtuous or worthy of praise.

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We sometimes forget that our body is a temple of the Holy Spirit. Each of us has the breath of Christ in us. Remember when Christ created Adam he breathed in him the breath of life, and man became a living soul. Because of that, there's a part of Christ living in everyone of us, regardless of our status. There's a part of Christ living in even those who hate him. He died for us all. That makes us special.

When I see people abusing their bodies by smoking, drinking alcohol, using drugs and eating the wrong foods it upsets me a lot.

One thing in particular that really bothers me is to see people standing infront of a hospital, infront of 'Smoking Prohibited' signs smoking their cigarettes. These people have no regard for others. A lot of people that are in the hospitals are there because of some kind of smoking related sickness.

I visit my mom every day at the Rouge Valley Health Care Hospital in Ajax, and every time I reach the front of the hospital, I get upset because of the smell of smoke. I can only comment on this particular hospital because I don't know if there are others like it.

For the life of me, I don't know why hospitals like this one cannot enforce their rules. These people have no respect for the hospitals and their rules. Some of them would end up with cancer. When they do, that same hospital would be taking care of them. It's a shame.

Prevention is better than cure.

I miss my mom

Since my mom had a stroke four weeks ago I have not been doing much on my blog. There's so much going on in my life right now. As they say, when it rains it pours. Two of my sisters are here from NY and WV to be with her and for my moral support.

She has improved a little. She recognizes me and my sisters. She is still unable to talk, walk and swallow. She has a feeding tube in her stomach, which she tried to pull out once before. Because of that her hand has to be tied. It's hard to see my mom in that condition. I feel helpless. I managed to get her to smile a few times by fooling around with a little stuffed toy. She has become like a child again. 'Once a man, twice a child' is so true.

I hope and trust that with each passing day she will continue to improve. Although we've been told by the doctors that she will never return to what she was before.

We're trying to find a good nursing home to put her. That is something she's always been against. I grieve for her.

Having a stroke

A lot have been happening in my life since I've been here, and all at once. One of those things is, my mom had a massive stroke last week that affected the right side of her body. It was very scary. She is now in the ICU. Her prognosis does not look too good. She cannot walk, talk nor even swallow. She is sleeping most of the time. She does open her eyes once in a while. She has movement in her left arm and leg.

Here is a link with information on stroke www.heartandstroke.ca/stroke

4,000 jobs available right now

I was doing a little internet browsing and found this Youtube video www.youtube.com/watch?v=lM7opmmSEa8 about working from home. Is this for real? Imaging working from home, not having to endure hours of commuting. How convenient. This one looks legit. It's MSNBC - Today's Money and it's working for the IRS. Did you say IRS? Ooops, this is only in the US.

There are so many sites and videos on the internet about making money working from home, you have to be very careful. A lot of them are scams! With so many people without a job right now, this is the time scam artists tend to prey upon people like us. If they cannot tell me on their videos or websites what the job entails, I don't waste my time to register, because most likely they will use my information for their benefit. I would not pay a penny for a job. Not even if it's a $1 or $2 for shipping and handling for a book or kit.

Be aware!

Where one or two are gathered in my name...

I did not make it to church today although I had planned to go. I woke up this morning with the same annoying pain in my back, right hip and knee that I've had for the past couple of weeks. It was so bad last week that I had to go to the pharmacy to get some medication for it. It was more of a spasm. The Robaxisal that I got seemed to have helped somewhat, until it started again this morning. I don't like taking medication for too long unless it's absolutely necessary.

Therefore I decided to have my own little service in my home, minus the congregation, just me and my mom. "For where two or three are gathered in my name, there am I in the midst of them" - Matthew 18:10.

We listened to some gospel DVDs as we sang along. We also listened to a sermon on the 10th commandment. "Thou shalt not covet thy neighbour's house. Thou shalt not covet thy neighbour's wife, nor his manservant, nor his maidservant, nor his ox, nor his ass, nor anything that is thy neighbour's." - Exodus 20:17. It's a DVD that a friend had given to me on the Ten Commandments series that was held in Chicago. Even though I enjoyed the preaching and singing, it's never the same like going to church.

It's a beautiful day outside. A bit breezy but lots of sunshine. I wanted to take a drive down to the lake with my mom, but knowing my mom, the weather has to be perfect for her to go. It's difficult getting her to go anywhere.

A friend later phoned me and asked if I had gone to the camp meeting in the West end. I had forgotten everything about it. I didn't feel that bad after all because I am sure the church was almost empty since a lot of people had gone to the camp meeting.

I always associate camp meeting with tent and outdoor. I don't know why they would now have it in a hotel. It's just not the same. I used to enjoy camp meetings when it was held in Oshawa under a very large tent. At lunch time most families would set up their own little pic-nic area under the trees and have lunch there. Some would have lunch at friends' homes. Some in their vehicles. After lunch, some would even fall asleep under the trees. By the time the afternoon program is ready to begin, everyone's appetite is satisfied and they are relaxed.

I don't know if the conference would ever have it here in the East end like they used to every year for the past number of years. When I moved to this area three years ago, I thought I would be closer to the camp meeting site. But now that they've moved it in the West end, it's even farther from me. I definitely won't be attending.

It was a beautiful Sabbath day!

May God bless you Michael

When I first heard the news that Michael Jackson had died, I could not believe it. I was very shocked and saddened at his sudden death. When someone dies suddenly, it's harder to deal with their death than when someone who has been ill for some time dies.

I watched Michael as a little boy performed on many of his TV shows and was marvelled at his superb talent. I thought he was so cute. He was the main attraction of the group.

As time went on, there were many changes about Michael. However, my love for him never changed. Instead of criticizing him for some bad decisions that he had made, I felt sympathy for him. I don't believe it was Michael's fault for some of his unusual behaviour. Something may have happened in his life that caused him to be that way. Plus all the stress that people have caused him. Perhaps he never received the care that he should have.

I am amazed at how some of the same people who built him up, also broke him down. Perhaps to them, he was too successful. He was criticized, mocked and accused. He was under a tremendous amount of stress. A lot of people began to hate him, more so for his unusual transformation and for child molestation accusations. They were very cruel to him. His true fans were always loyal to him. I am one of them. As I mentioned before, I felt more sympathy for him than hate.

For those who criticized and hated Michael, remember when Mary Magdelene was brought before Jesus. They wanted to stone her to death. What did Jesus say to them? "He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her". None of them could have done that because they knew they were all sinners, so they left.

Do you think Jesus, who is sinless, would have condemned Michael? No. But those who lie, cheat, steal and perhaps more horrible things, had condemned him for things they did not like about him. Some of these things were not even proven.

Goodbye Michael. Rest in peace. The peace you never got when you were alive. Your music would always remind us of you.

The link below is Lisa Marie Presley blogs about Michael Jackson's death and how it affects her:

www.aceshowbiz.com/news/view/00025327.html

'I am watching my cholesterol'

I was walking through the dessert section in the grocery store the other day, and could have only looked at the many mouth-watering cakes, pies and other desserts but was afraid to buy any because 'I am watching my cholesterol'.

We're constantly reminded by the media and health magazines about foods we should avoid in order to maintain good health and a healthy cholesterol level. I could not help but wonder, if most of us should avoid these foods (with a high cholesterol, fat and sugar content), then are these desserts there for only the skinny, young and healthy. A lot of young people are now overweight, so maybe they're there for only those that are skinny and healthy. If we are told to avoid these foods, then why put them in our view where we can be tempted.

That made me think of when God put Adam and Eve in the garden and told them they can eat from every other tree, but not to eat from the tree in the middle of the garden. He gave them a choice. They disobeyed, and unfortunately we're all paying for their choice.

Genesis 2:9 - And the Lord God made all kinds of trees grow out of the ground - -trees that were pleasing to the eye and good for food. In the middle of the garden were the tree of life and the tree of the knowledge of good and evil.

Genesis 3:3 - But God did say "You must not eat fruit from the tree that is in the middle of the garden and you must not touch it or you will die."

So too, we have choices. We can choose to stay away from those attractive and tasty desserts and be healthy, or we can choose to enjoy them and pay the consequences.

I don't consider myself overweight, but I can lose a few pounds. I try to avoid that section of the store. Life is not fair, is it? Why can't they make desserts for people who are 'watching their cholesterol'.

The Wolves Within

An old grandfather said to his grandson who came to him with anger at a friend who had done him an injustice, "Let me tell you a story.

I too, at times, have felt a great hate for those that have done me wrong and have taken so much, with no sorrow for what they've done.

But hate wears you done, and does not hurt your enemy. It is like taking poison and wishing your enemy would die. I have struggled with these feelings many times", he continued. "It is as if two wolves are inside me. One is good and does not harm. He lives in harmony with all around him, and does not take offense when no offense was intended. He will only fight when it is right to do so, and in the right way.

But the other wolf, ah, he is full of anger. The smallest thing will set him into a fit of temper. He fights everyone all the time for no reason. He cannot think because his anger and hate are so great. It is helpless anger, for his anger will change nothing.

Sometimes it is hard to live with these two wolves inside me, for both of them try to dominate my spirit".

The boy looked intently into his grandfather's eyes and asked, "Which one wins, grandfather?"

The grandfather smiled and quietly said, "The one I feed".

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"Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else. You are the one who gets burned".

What is Faith?

Faith means to believe and trust completely. Faith is not something that happens to you, it is something that happens in you. It also means believing in something or someone you cannot see.

For we walk by faith, not by sight, 2 Corinthians 5:7.

Those who do not believe there's a God because they cannot see him, even though there's evidence of his existence, do not have faith.

So then Faith cometh by hearing and hearing by the word of God - Romans 10:17

But without Faith it is impossible to please Him: for he that cometh to God must believe that He is, and that He is a rewarder of them that deligently seek Him - Hebrews 11:6

Now Faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen. Hebrews 11:1Peter walking on water demonstrates faith, when he asked Jesus the water. It also onstrates

And Peter answered him and said, "Lord, if it be thou, bid me come unto thee on the water." - Matthew 14:28

29 - And he said, "Come". And when Peter was come down out of the ship, he walked on the water, to go to Jesus.

30 - But when he saw the wind boisterous, he was afraid; and beginning to sink, he cried, saying, "Lord, save me."

31 - And immediately Jesus stretched forth his hand, and caught him, and said unto him, "O thou of little faith, wherefore didst thou doubt?"

Faith is totally trusting God and not doubting. Most people base their faith on the result of their prayer request. If they've had a prayer answered, the level of their faith will more than likely be higher than if they've not received an answer to their prayers. They may say, I pray before for something and never received it, how am I to believe this time that I will get my prayer answered.

Another example of demonstrated faith is Abraham, who was about to use his only son, Isaac, as a sacrifice to God. He had so much faith in God, that obeying God was more important that sparing his only son's life. Perhaps deep down in Abraham's heart he believed that God would never take the life of his only son. God did not need to test Abraham's faith to find out how deep his faith was because God knows everything even before it happens. But he wanted to test Abraham's faith to prove a point to Abraham himself, or as a lesson to the rest of us. Just as Abraham was about to plunge the knife into Isaac's body, the angel held back his hand.

Why did God take Abraham's faith to the brink?

Just think of how many times God has put our faith to the test, to the point where we cannot take it anymore. It's at the point when we're at the brink that he intervenes. He never gives us more than we can bear.

I am facing some very difficult times in my life right now, like a lot of other people. I ask myself, could it be that God is using this to strengthen me for even more difficult times ahead? Yet, I do believe that God will work out something for me.

I've heard that a tree is strengthened by the storms it withstands. I think especially of the palm tree and how it seem to withstand storm after storm. Some trees would be uprooted, some will break, but the palm tree will be tossed back and forth and bend to the ground, but after the storm has passed it will bounce right back up because of its flexibility.

The Bible says that "the righteous shall flourish like a palm tree, planted in the house of the Lord, they will flourish in the courts of our God. (Psalm 92: 12-13).

When we go through the storms of life, we need to remember the palm tree.

David Letterman's comment or 'joke' about Sarah Palin's daughter

I personally did not find it funny. What may be a 'joke' to one person, may be pain or insult to another. Humiliating or derogative comments about anyone are not funny. There are so many other things to trample on other than young women's self esteem. How insensitive.

I agree with Sarah Palin. He should apologize not only to her daughter, but to women. It is sad how women are looked upon as sex objects in our society.

How about making jokes about yourself, Mr. Letterman. That way no one would be offended but you, and I'm sure you won't want to offend yourself, therefore you would be very careful what you say.

I would love to hear other people's views. Leave me your comments, or vote at the bottom, right side of this page.

To read the full story on Today (powered by msnbc.com) click on the link below:

http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/31275358/?GT1=43001#storyContinued

Flowers are God's gifts to us

Now that the warm weather is here and the frost has gone, the flowers in my small garden are finally showing life again. The roses have begun to bud. The butterfly bush and the hibiscus seem to take a while longer.

I bought two beautiful baskets of deep pink petunias today to hang on my fence. I really would have preferred if they were mixed with another colour - perhaps pink and white, but I could'nt find any. Didn't have a camera available to take a picture of them.

I am crazy about flowers. My eldest sister who lives in WV is more obsessed with flowers than I am. Everytime I phoned her and there's no answer, I know right away she's in the garden. I once bought her a small wall plaque that reads "I live in the garden, I only sleep in the house". It fits her perfectly.

Even though I like all flowers, some of my favourites are the daliahs, peony, clamatis, roses and daisies, to name a few.

I wonder how do they come up with the names for flowers. There are thousands of them. Some of the names I have a difficult time remembering. I came across this website on 'How Flowers Get Their Names' www.pss.uvm.edu/ppp/articles/flowname.html

Reliv International distributor

Now that I am a Reliv International distributor, I've been spending a lot of time trying to learn more about the business and the nutritional products. I've also been trying, with the help of Yola, to create a website (nothing fancy) to promote my business.

I've been using the drinks for about a month and I've noticed an improvement in my energy and my memory. I've also listened to a lot of people who claim how these nutritional drinks have improved their health.

One of the things that I like about the company is that they've opened feeding centres in Haiti, the Philippeans and other poor countries to nourish the people, especially the children. I was impressed. I am proud to be a part of this company.

Below are links on Reliv nutritional products:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7_A5p2RBQ2U

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZpB5G1h5rlQ

If anyone would like to order the products or become a distributor, please let me know in the Comment field. Do not leave your address nor phone #. Google will send me an email with your comment for me to decide whether I want to accept the comment or not. Instead of me replying to your comment, which would show up in my blog, I would contact you directly via your email address.

I Couldn't Be There Today

I came across this poem today which I had saved on my computer. It was written by my sister in West Virginia for my uncle (my mom's brother) who passed away in his sleep two years ago. No one expected it to happen as we had spoken to him just a few days before and his voice was very strong. He never complained about any illness. He had lived in London, England. We all miss him very much.

He and his wife were married for over fifty years. When someone you've been married to for so many years passes away, I guess it can be compared to losing a part of your body. One year after his passing away, she followed him.

I COULDN’T BE THERE TODAY

Though we were miles apart,
We always kept in touch.
Distance was no barrier,
Of the love we feel so much.

You call me often when I was sick,
I thought that I would die.
You gave me words of encouragement,
You built my hopes up high.

Now I am ok and you are gone,
You did not say goodbye.
You slipped away quietly,
But I understand why.

You went to be with Jesus,
A place of peace and rest.
Sleep in Jesus, dear uncle,
Lay your head upon his breast.

Until that day when we reunite,
Sleep in Jesus dear uncle.
It won’t always be night.

Love,
Your niece, Jenetha.

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Go light your world

Favourite quotes: I am only one, but I am one. I cannot do everything, but I can do something. And I will not let what I cannot do interfere with what I can do. ~Edward Everett Hale

Nobody made a greater mistake than he who did nothing because he could only do a little. ~Edmund Burke

If you can't feed a hundred people, then feed just one. ~Mother Teresa

Wherever a man turns he can find someone who needs him. ~Albert Schweitzer

Nobody can do everything, but everyone can do something. ~Author Unknown
While earning your daily bread, be sure you share a slice with those less fortunate. ~Quoted in P.S. I Love You, compiled by H. Jackson Brown, Jr.

How far that little candle throws his beams!So shines a good deed in a naughty world.~William Shakespeare, Merchant of Venice, much later adapted to "So shines a good deed in a weary world" by David Seltzer for the 1971 film Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory

If we could all hear one another's prayers, God might be relieved of some of his burdens. ~Ashleigh Brilliant

I expect to pass through life but once. If therefore, there be any kindness I can show, or any good thing I can do to any fellow being, let me do it now, and not defer or neglect it, as I shall not pass this way again. ~William Penn

The Lord loveth a cheerful giver. He also accepteth from a grouch. ~Catherine Hall

The Lord loveth a cheerful giver. He also accepteth from a grouch. ~Catherine Hall

At the Appointed Time

When we pray to God for something and we do not receive it within a certain time, we begin to lose faith and wonder if God really hears us. Sometimes we wonder if there's something in our lives that's preventing God from hearing our prayers. He does not always answer our prayers immediately, unless we're in immediate danger, nor does he answer our prayers on our terms.

Below are the words in an email I received today from a brother in Christ. Just thought I'd share it with you.

TODAY'S SCRIPTURE - At the Appointed Time "For the vision is yet for an appointed time…it will surely come; it will not be behind hand on its appointed day"(Habakkuk 2:3, AMP).

God is looking for people who have a made-up mind; people who will trust His timing. You may not see His promises happen overnight, but they will happen.

In the Bible, Abraham waited 20 years to have a son and see his promise come to pass. Moses waited 40 years to fulfill his purpose and lead the children of Israel out of captivity.

You might say, “I’ve been waiting for a year, and I don’t see anything happening.” No, something is happening. Right now, God is working behind the scenes in your life. He is arranging the right people, the right breaks and the right opportunities.

Today’s scripture tells us that at the appointed time, the promise will come to pass, and it will not be one second late! When is the appointed time? It’s when God knows the timing is best for you. When you understand and accept this principle, it takes all the pressure off you. It’s very comforting to live knowing that as long as we stay in faith, God will release His favor, His increase, His restoration, and His healing at exactly the right time in our lives!

A PRAYER FOR TODAY. Father in heaven, thank You for working behind the scenes in my life. I trust that the appointed time for me is on its way. I am content in You, knowing that You have a good plan for my future. I bless you today and always. In Jesus’ Name. Amen

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Reliv meeting

I went to a Reliv meeting tonight and was quite impressed with some of the stories I've heard. Some claimed that since they've been drinking these powdered drinks they longer experience pain in their joints, their high blood pressure went down, they no longer feel constantly tired, and so on. I just started using the drinks a week ago and have not yet noticed a big improvement. There are times, however, when I feel a little more energetic than usual.

There's also a great opportunity to earn an income by telling others how these nutritional drinks have improved their health. Most people have at least one health issue, and everyone would do what they can to be more healthy.

The guy that signed me up is earning close to $2,000 a month. What I like about the company is: 1) there's a 90% money-back guarantee if you're not satisfy with the products, 2) the company provides critically needed supplements to malnourished children around the world through its nonprofit organization, the Reliv Kalogris Foundation and 3) everyone seem very helpful in helping others to succeed in the business.

The misery of allergies

I am sitting here feeling very frustrated with the many symptoms of allergies. My eyes sting, run, itch and burn. Sometimes (very often) it feels like there's a film over my eyes. Even if I rub them, it does not help. It's very annoying, especially when I'm driving or on my computer. My sinuses are congested, nose stuffy. Is there an end to my suffering?

If I was allergic to any type of foods all I have to do is stop eating that food, but when I am allergic to something in the air, how can I avoid that? I can't prevent myself from breathing and I cannot always stay indoors.

I am allergic to dust, ragweed, pollen, vehicle exhaust and cigarette smoke (I don't smoke, never did, never will. I detest it). I cannot take any medication because of HBP.

Why can't they find a cure for allergies. I believe they don't want to. If they do, who would buy the vast number of allergy medication on the shelves? I guess I would have to continue to suffer until that great day.

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The Secret to Managing Frustrations

I get daily devotions from Pastor Rick Warren and felt the need to pass this one on to my readers since, I believe, everyone encounters situations that frustrates them from time to time. However, not everyone reacts the same.

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"A man's wisdom gives him patience..." (Proverbs 19:11 NIV).

It's amazing how fifteen minor frustrations at the office can add up to one big, bad attitude by the time you head for home. Frustrations come in three varieties:

1. Interruptions: Unexpected visitors or phone calls when you have a deadline to meet or something important requires your attention. Our best plans are often interrupted.

2. Inconveniences: While interruptions are usually from people, inconveniences are usually situations involving things: the copy machine breaks down, traffic jams up, or you can't find what you need when you need it.

3. Irritations: Long delays, unreliable people, playing telephone tag, catching a cold, obnoxious clients, etc.

But the truth is you can't eliminate these. No doubt you'll face all three varieties this week, but you can keep them from stressing you out.

What's the secret of managing your frustrations?

Don't resist it, but don't overreact or blow up. Don't resent it; don't internalize you anger. Don't resign to it; don't have a pity-party.

Instead, reduce it. Treat it as insignificant. Put the frustration into proper perspective. It's just a minor setback, a part of living, no big deal! It's certainly not worth a heart attack. Follow these rules for stress management:

• RULE #1: Don't sweat the small stuff.•
• RULE #2: Realize it's all small stuff!

The Bible says, "A man's wisdom gives him patience..." (Proverbs 19:11 NIV). The only way we can see all stuff as small stuff is to view it from God's perspective. When I am in tune with God, I remember he has everything under control even though I don't! So I don't have to sweat it: "The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control" (Galatians 5:22-23 NIV).

Pray this prayer: "Lord, help me to be filled with your love, joy, and peace, so that when I'm squeezed and pressured it is your love, joy, and peace that spill out of me."

Protecting our children from the devil's trap

Victoria “Tori” Stafford disappeared on April 8th while walking home from school, which, I understand, is just a few minutes walk to her home. Victoria was last seen in a surveillance video walking with a woman away from her school, (like an animal being taken away to be slaughtered).

When I first heard it on the news I was hoping for a happy end to this tragic story and that she would be found alive, but after a week or two went by, and judging from the outcome of past disappearances of little children across Canada, I began to lose hope.

After 42 days, 28-year-old Michael Rafferty and Terri-Lynne McClintic were arrested in the case.

I cannot imagine what satisfaction anyone can get from taking the life of a child. When a person can use an innocent child for their own sexual gratification, you know that person is being controlled by the devil. We’re living in a very sick and evil world.

I heard someone said on a radio station that parents should give their children a password so that if anyone comes to pick them up from school, the child should ask the person for the password. That’s a lot of pressure to put on children, to expect them to remember a password. Can a child of 5 or 6 remember a password? Parents need to be praying for the safety of their children.

http://video.msn.com/video.aspx/?mkt=en-ca&brand=sympatico&tab=m1388&vid=4168c987-9932-45d3-bd51-165583f9dfec&playlist=videoByTag:tag:encanews_encatopstories:ns:MSNVideo_Top_Cat:mk:en-ca:sf:DailyCount:st:1:vs:0&from=msnhpslider&wa=wsignin1.0

Ecc. 9:3 - Show Context - This is the evil in everything that happens under the sun: The same destiny overtakes all. The hearts of men, moreover, are full of evil and there is madness in their hearts while they live, and afterward they join the dead.

Mt 5:21 - Show Context - You have heard that it was said to the people long ago, 'Do not murder, and anyone who murders will be subject to judgment.'

Nu 35:21 - Show Context - … or if in hostility he hits him with his fist so that he dies, that person shall be put to death; he is a murderer. The avenger of blood shall put the murderer to death when he meets him.

I think this song "Held" by Natalie Grant fits this situation. Click on the link below to listen YouTube - Natalie grant held

Fruited Rice Pudding Recipe

Every once in a while I would have the desire to try a new recipe. I went searching for one and came across this healthy recipe on MayoClinic.com that I would like to pass on to you.

Ingredients

2 cups water
1 cup long-grain rice
4 cups evaporated fat-free milk
1/2 cup brown sugar
1/2 teaspoon lemon zest
1 teaspoon vanilla extract
6 egg whites
1/4 cup crushed pineapple
1/4 cup raisins
1/4 cup chopped apricots

Directions

In a medium saucepan, bring 2 cups of water to a boil. Add the rice and cook about 10 minutes. Pour into a colander and drain thoroughly.

In the same saucepan, add the evaporated milk and brown sugar. Cook until hot. Add the cooked rice, lemon zest and vanilla extract. Simmer over low heat until the mixture is thick and the rice is tender, about 30 minutes Remove from the heat and cool.

In a small bowl, whisk together the egg whites. Pour into the rice mixture. Add the pineapple, raisins and apricots. Stir until well blended.

Preheat the oven to 325 F. Lightly coat a baking dish with cooking spray.

Spoon the pudding and fruit mixture into the baking dish. Bake until the pudding is set, about 20 minutes.

Serve warm or cold.

What is it about alcohol.....

that so many people seem to crave it. Alcohol is a drug that is widely accepted by society, even though it destroys families and relationships and is the number one cause of many accidents on our roads, which quite often results in the untimely deaths of many innocent people.

There are many reasons people drink alcohol. Curiosity is still a prevalent reason for alcohol consumption by young people. We are constantly bombarded with messages promoting alcohol use. Another reason for alcohol consumption is stress reduction, which really does not get rid of the stress itself. All it does is it helps the person to forget about the stress for a while. Everyone of us experiences stress in our lives, but not everyone of us use alcohol as an escape from our stress. I do believe those who do are weak and do not have stamina.

I passed by a liquor store some time ago and noticed behind the glass window bottles of various brands of wine and rum decorated with flowers. I tried to see the connection between both, but could not. All I saw was a display of psychology.

1 Corinthians 6:9-10--"Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolators, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, nor thieves, not covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God."

Proverbs 20:1--"Wine is a mocker, strong drink is raging, and whosoever is deceived thereby is not wise." A person who becomes drunk is a fool. He may think the wine is doing something good for him, but it is mocking in every way.

Links with information on alcohol:

http://science.education.nih.gov/supplements/nih3/alcohol/guide/info-alcohol.htm

http://www.narconon.ca/Alcohol.htm

A prayer for the economy and for those who are suffering

Are you hurting, lonely, lost a loved one or suffering with an illness, lost your job or facing other difficulties in your life and you can’t seem to find a way out? Remember, you’re not alone. There are millions of others like you and myself who are in the same boat. Suffering and sorrow are a part of life. We cannot live a perfect life in an imperfect world. Knowing this, however, doesn't make it any easier to cope when you find yourself in the midst of the deepest, darkest trials of faith.

Sometimes when our suffering seems more than we can bear, we wonder why is God allowing this to happen to us, but suffering sometimes helps to shape our character and strengthen us.

Who knows more about suffering than Jesus. He knows more about being hurt and humiliated. He remembers the terrible moment on the cross when his Father was forced to abandon him, because he was terribly stained with our sins.

Romans 3:23: For ALL HAVE SINNED and come short of the glory of God.

"Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:"

When you're angry and bitter you can still trust in Jesus in the midst of your tears. You can hold onto him and refuse to let go until he brings you through it. You'll find, to your surprise, that he holds on to you even tighter than you hold on to him.

It takes real spiritual maturity to stay faithful when things go wrong, but severing our relationship with God punishes us, not him.

Php. 4:6 - Show Context
Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.

Luke 12:7:
7But even the very hairs of your head are all numbered. Fear not therefore: ye are of more value than many sparrows.

Prayer:

Father God, in the blessed name of your son, Jesus, I ask that you to bless those reading this post at this very minute. I also ask that you provide a job for those who are unemployed and experiencing financial hardships in their lives. You’ve promised to provide for us our every need. I ask that you comfort those who are lonely and discouraged. Heal those who are sick and strengthen their bodies. You’ve created us and you know what our needs are. You know us better than we know ourselves. I pray that you fill our hearts with your peace and love. Let there be peace also in this troubled world. Help us to be more sensitive to the needs of those who are impoverished. I ask you father to strengthen the world economy and direct our governments and leaders. This I ask in the holy name of Jesus. Amen.

Proverbs 29:2 (Whole Chapter) When the righteous are in authority, the people rejoice: but when the wicked beareth rule, the people mourn.

2Ch 7:14 - Show Context - If my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then will I hear from heaven and will forgive their sin and will heal their land.

The wise old man....

My cousin is always sending me these wonderful emails and slide shows that make me stop and reflect. We all should be like this gentleman. The guidelines to happiness, according to this wise old gentleman, are: 1) Free our hearts from hate, 2) Free your mind from worry, 3) Live simple, 4) Give more, 5) Expect less. Enjoy this slide show: http://www.slideshare.net/ohteikbin/the-wise-old-man-395772.

Thanks Judy!

Marriages of the Bible

I did not realize there were so many marriages mentioned in the Bible. Following is a list of some of them:


Ge 2:22 - Show Context
Then the Lord God made a woman from the rib he had taken out of the man, and he brought her to the man.

Ex 2:21 - Show Context
Moses agreed to stay with the man, who gave his daughter Zipporah to Moses in marriage.

De 22:16 - Show Context
The girl's father will say to the elders, "I gave my daughter in marriage to this man, but he dislikes her.

Jos 15:16 - Show Context
And Caleb said, "I will give my daughter Acsah in marriage to the man who attacks and captures Kiriath Sepher."

Jos 15:17 - Show Context
Othniel son of Kenaz, Caleb's brother, took it; so Caleb gave his daughter Acsah to him in marriage.

Jud 1:13 - Show Context
Othniel son of Kenaz, Caleb's younger brother, took it; so Caleb gave his daughter Acsah to him in marriage.

Jud 3:6 - Show Context
They took their daughters in marriage and gave their own daughters to their sons, and served their gods.

Jud 12:9 - Show Context
He had thirty sons and thirty daughters. He gave his daughters away in marriage to those outside his clan, and for his sons he brought in thirty young women as wives from outside his clan. Ibzan led Israel seven years.

Jud 21:1 - Show Context
The men of Israel had taken an oath at Mizpah: "Not one of us will give his daughter in marriage to a Benjamite."

Jud 21:7 - Show Context
"How can we provide wives for those who are left, since we have taken an oath by the Lord not to give them any of our daughters in marriage?"

1Sa 18:17 - Show Context
Saul said to David, "Here is my older daughter Merab. I will give her to you in marriage; only serve me bravely and fight the battles of the Lord." For Saul said to himself, "I will not raise a hand against him. Let the Philistines do that!"

1Sa 18:19 - Show Context
So when the time came for Merab, Saul's daughter, to be given to David, she was given in marriage to Adriel of Meholah.

1Ki 2:21 - Show Context
So she said, "Let Abishag the Shunammite be given in marriage to your brother Adonijah."

1Ki 11:19 - Show Context
Pharaoh was so pleased with Hadad that he gave him a sister of his own wife, Queen Tahpenes, in marriage.

De 23:2 - Show Context
No one born of a forbidden marriage nor any of his descendants may enter the assembly of the Lord, even down to the tenth generation.

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Mother's Day gift

It was a beautiful day yesterday for Mother's Day. The skies were blue and the sun was shining with a nice soft, cool breeze.

I gave my mom a lovely bouquet and a big hug. My son also gave her another bouquet. He gave me a small filing cabinet, something that I needed to help me to be more organized. The piles of papers lying around on my desk must have given him a clue. I also had a BBQ dinner with him and his girlfriend and her family. I enjoyed it very much.

My mom's the best. She is a very strong and courageous lady. She took care of us six girls all by herself after my father died. When he died my oldest sister was, I believe, 18 years of age. I am sure it wasn't easy. She is now 86. She can be very humorous at times. She enjoys her solitude and prefers to be alone or with close family members rather than in large groups. Every night and every morning she sits in her chair and reads her Bible. She has a close relationship with her God.

She became very ill six months ago and was in the hospital for a few weeks. She scared us all. She has regained her strength and is now walking again. My mom is a fighter. I would not dare put a picture of her here. She is a very private person.

Happy Mother's Day!

Happy Mother's Day to my mom and all other mothers. I hope you have a wonderful day, free from chores.

The following sermon was taken from Preaching Today.com:

What It Takes to Be a Mother by Mark Mitchell

Exodus 2:1-10; Numbers 26:59; Hebrews 11:23

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Text: Exodus 2:1–10; Numbers 26:59; Hebrews 11:23

Topic: Learning how to be a mother marked by faith

Introduction

• On Mother's Day I like to remind everyone to be good to their mothers and appreciate them more. But today's message is not about how to be good to your mother; today's message is about a mother who had to make some hard choices for the welfare of her son.
• Being a mother or a father isn't for the faint of heart. It requires some tough decisions—decisions that are risky and heart-wrenching, decisions that require faith.

Jochebed: A finely drawn portrait of a mother with faith

• I'd like for us to reflect on the story of Jochebed, the mother of Moses (Numbers 26:59).
• Jochebed is mentioned only a few times in Scripture, but she provides a finely drawn portrait of a mother with faith.
• Hebrews 11:23
• Because Israel had become a threat to the reigning Pharaoh, he forced them into slavery.
• When they continued to grow and prosper, he commanded the Hebrew midwives to throw their newborn sons into the Nile to die.
• It was during this reign of terror that Jochebed became pregnant with her third child.
  Illustration: Mitchell lists modern-day mothers who are living under trying circumstances.
• Every conscientious parent knows how dangerous it is to grow up in our world!
• In the dangerous world in which she found herself, Jochebed stands out because she did what she could to save her child.
• When she could do no more, she depended totally on the faithfulness of God, making her a model of faith.

Jochebed had a courageous faith

• Hebrews 11:23
• Though the king said all the male Hebrew babies had to be thrown into the Nile, Jochebed and her husband disobeyed the king and hid Moses for three months. That takes courage!
  Illustration: Drawing from personal experiences, Mitchell explains just how difficult it must have been to hide the baby.
• We often think of faith as passive—this whole idea of "let go and let God." But real faith is active and willing to take risks.
  Illustration: Mitchell lists modern-day mothers who show a courageous faith.

Jochebed had a sensible faith

• After three months of hiding her baby, she saw the handwriting on the wall. So, she made a little wicker basket, covered it with tar and pitch to make it float, and put it in the reeds on the banks of the Nile.
• The word "basket" is the same word used for "ark" (i.e. Noah), emphasizing the dangerous environment in which Moses was placed.
• Still, what Jochebed did was not careless; it was sensible.
  She didn't just put him in the Nile and wave good-bye; she had Moses' older sister stand at a distance to find out what would happen to him.
  Illustration: Mitchell shares a humorous story about how one woman cleverly dealt with a small fire at her daughter's wedding.
  Illustration: Mitchell lists examples where the sensibility required of a mother is far more consequential.

Jochebed's courageous, sensible faith was rewarded

• As Moses floated along the banks of the Nile, the daughter of Pharaoh arrived with her maidens. She saw the basket and had it brought to her.
• It was standard procedure for a wealthy woman to hire a wet nurse to feed a child until he/she was weaned, and the wet nurse would be the legal guardian during those first years.
• At just the right time, Moses' sister moved in and made an offer to help fulfill that custom.
• Moses' sister went to find Jochebed, who not only got to raise her child, but now got paid for her work!
• Surely you see God's hand in all of this!
• There are things mothers can do, but ultimately they have to leave it in God's hands.
  Illustration: Mitchell lists ways modern-day mothers have to learn how to let go of some things in life.
• One of the interesting things about this passage is the prominent role women with motherly instincts play in the story: Jochebed "saw" that Moses was beautiful; Pharaoh's daughter "saw" the basket and "saw" the child crying; Moses' sister stood in the wings to "know" or "notice" what would happen and when to act.
• All of this foreshadows what God would soon do for his people.
• In Exodus 2:25, it says that God "saw"—same word—"the sons of Israel, and God took notice"—same word—"of them."
• It was God's motherly instincts to "see" us as worthy of delivering from our utterly helpless state through the death, burial, and resurrection of his own Son.

Conclusion

• Illustration: Mitchell offers a final humorous story to illustrate the importance of mothers. As one woman put it: mothers are "socializing … homosapiens into the dominant values of the Judeo-Christian tradition, in order that they might be instruments for the transformation of the social order into the kind of eschatological utopia that God willed from the beginning of creation."
• Mothers, your ultimate purpose is to foster a courageous, sensible faith that will instill in your children a knowledge of, a faith in, and a love for this God who sees and knows your child's deepest need for salvation and has decisively moved to accomplish it through the work of Jesus.
• Don't worry—it's not all up to you! God is partnering with you.

We reap what we sow

My cousin sent me this email today and I thought I'd share it with you. You may have seen it before.

Remarks from CBS Sunday Morning (everyone should read!) I only hope we find God again before it is too late!!

The following was written by Ben Stein and recited by him on CBS Sunday Morning Commentary. My confession: I am a Jew, and every single one of my ancestors was Jewish. And it does not bother me even a little bit when people call those beautiful lit up, bejeweled trees, Christmas trees.. I don't feel threatened. I don't feel discriminated against. That's what they are: Christmas trees. It doesn't bother me a bit when people say, 'Merry Christmas' to me. I don't think they are slighting me or getting ready to put me in a ghetto. In fact, I kind of like it It shows that we are all brothers and sisters celebrating this happy time of year. It doesn't bother me at all that there is a manger scene on display at a key intersection near my beach house in Malibu .. If people want a creche, it's just as fine with me as is the Menorah a few hundred yards away. I don't like getting pushed around for being a Jew, and I don't think Christians like getting pushed around for being Christians. I think people who believe in God are sick and tired of getting pushed around, period. I have no idea where the concept came from that America is an explicitly atheist country. I can't find it in the Constitution and I don't like it being shoved down my throat. Or maybe I can put it another way: where did the idea come from that we should worship celebrities and we aren't allowed to worship God as we understand Him? I guess that's a sign that I'm getting old, too. But there are a lot of us who are wondering where these celebrities came from and where the America we knew went to. In light of the many jokes we send to one another for a laugh, this is a little different: This is not intended to be a joke; it's not funny, it's intended to get you thinking. Billy Graham's daughter was interviewed on the Early Show and Jane Clayson asked her 'How could God let something like this happen?' (regarding Katrina) Anne Graham gave an extremely profound and insightful response. She said, 'I believe God is deeply saddened by this, just as we are, but for years we've been telling God to get out of our schools, to get out of our government and to get out of our lives. And being the gentleman He is, I believe He has calmly backed out. How can we expect God to give us His blessing and His protection if we demand He leave us alone?' In light of recent events... Terrorists attack, school shootings, etc. I think it started when Madeleine Murray O'Hare (she was murdered, her body found a few years ago) complained she didn't want prayer in our schools, and we said OK. Then someone said you better not read the Bible in school. The Bible says thou shalt not kill, thou shalt not steal, and love your neighbor as yourself. And we said OK. Then Dr. Benjamin Spock said we shouldn't spank our children when they misbehave because their little personalities would be warped and we might damage their self-esteem (Dr Spock's son committed suicide). We said an expert should know what he's talking about. And we said OK.Now we're asking ourselves why our children have no conscience, why they don't know right from wrong, and why it doesn't bother them to kill strangers, their classmates, and themselves.Probably, if we think about it long and hard enough, we can figure it out. I think it has a great deal to do with 'WE REAP WHAT WE SOW.' Funny how simple it is for people to trash God and then wonder why the world's going to hell Funny how we believe what the newspapers say, but question what the Bible says. Funny how you can send 'jokes' through e-mail and they spread like wildfire but when you start sending messages regarding the Lord, people think twice about sharing. Funny how lewd, crude, vulgar and obscene articles pass freely through cyberspace, but public discussion of God is suppressed in the school and workplace. Are you laughing yet? Funny how when you forward this message, you will not send it to many on Your address list because you're not sure what they believe, or what they Will think of you for sending it. Funny how we can be more worried about what other people think of us than what God thinks of us. Pass it on if you think it has merit. If not then just discard it... no one will know you did. But, if you discard this thought process, don't sit back and complain about what bad shape the world is in.

My Best Regards, Honestly and respectfully, Ben Stein

What's for breakfast?

To me, breakfast is the most difficult meal in terms of knowing what to prepare and the most important meal of the day. Some people skip breakfast, which is not good. It's like trying to drive a car without gas. Because it's the first meal of the day, your body needs the nutrients to carry you through until lunch.

This Asparagus Omelet is a good example of a good breakfast. Asparagus is a good source of vitamins and minerals.

Main Ingredients:

3 organic eggs:

6 asparagus spears,

1 tbsp. grated parmesan cheese (or 1 tbsp cheddar cheese)

1/2 tbsp olive oil

1 tbsp. fresh lemon juice

1 tbsp. salt and pepper

Directions:

1. Preheat the oven to 400 F (200 C). Place an oven proof pan with 1/2 tbsp olive oil in the oven.

2. Cut off the bottom tough part of the asparagus spears.

3. Steam them for 5 minutes or until tender. Alternatively you can boil them with a little bit of salt. Cut them into 2 cm (1 inch) pieces.

4. Meanwhile, whisk eggs, cheese, salt and pepper to blend well.

5. Remove the heated pan from the oven. Transfer asparagus pieces into the pan. Pour the egg mixture over it.

6. Place the pan in the oven and cook for 10 min or until done.

7. Serve it with fresh lemon juice.

Bon Appetit!

How to be more patient

Everywhere I go I see people who seem very impatient and frustrated. Some may have developed the habit or behaviour over a period of time, maybe in dealing with arrogant, jealous, selfish and/or unfair people in the workplace and other areas of their life. Some may have seen it in their parents or other family members and have adopted it. It's easy for a person's behaviour to 'rub off' on others. People who are frustrated and impatient are often people who are not happy about a situation in their life and they seem to have little or no control over it.

We live in a fast-paced world where everyone wants everything instantly. Have you ever seen the commercial where a woman pops a package of rice or vegetables in the microwave and within 5 to 10 minutes she has a meal, (which, by the way, is not healthy because when the package is heated it releases a chemical into the food. It's best to heat it on a plate). I realize it is quite convenient, because when you come home from work and you're tired, the last thing you want to do is to stand behind a stove for a long period of time. Your family and you are very hungry, so a frozen bag of vegetables with some chicken strips can make a fast stir fry in a few minutes. Sometimes I wonder how our grandparents and great grandparents got through without all the conveniences that we take for granted.

Another place where you see impatient people are on the road. There are those who are always in a hurry. Quote: Remember, it's not only a car that can be recalled by it's maker. At the same time, there are some people who drive way too slow. They're in no hurry. That's when your patience is really tested. When you're in that situation, turn up the music and sing. :)

In addition to being impatient on the road, here are some other things that can cause a person to be impatient and frustrated:

• telemarketers who continue to phone you even though you tell them you're not interested in their product or service
• too many options when you dial certain phone numbers. Here's a scenario: Machine: "If you're calling about your internet service press 1, phone service press 2" Me: I would press 1 for internet service Machine: "If you're calling about your internet service statement press 1, technical problems press 2" Me: I would press 2 for technical problems Machine: "If you're calling about not being able to sign in press 1, your computer is slow press 2, ..... and it goes on and on. Come on, just give the job to someone and let them direct my call to the appropriate department. I am paying a lot of money for my internet service. You should be able to pay someone to serve me properly.

Machines have replaced human contact and have eliminated many jobs. The world has become very robotic and cold.

Jesus is a good example for us to follow when it comes to practising patience. As christians we should be walking in his footsteps. But then if Jesus had to deal with a situation like that he would skip all those options and go directly to the option he wants. :) Just trying to be funny. Seriously, that's one area where I need more practise, even though some people have told me that I have a lot of patience, that's in certain situations. If I was living in a world where everyone was like Jesus I would be the most patient person.

I've found the following helpful information on "How to Have Patience" by eHow Culture & Society Editor

Life's annoyances and challenges require that we practice patience. But the speed of life often wears our patience thin. Patience is essential because it gives us self-control, helps us be more loving, and achieve what we want. Like a muscle, patience can be strengthened with regular exercise. The right attitude and a little practice captures the power of patience. Read on to learn more.

Study Yourself

Step 1 - Study what triggers your impatience. Notice what happens just before you're ready to blow.

Step 2 - Notice how impatience feels. Identify your own feelings of annoyance or irritation. Find a way to counteract your feelings. For example, breathe slowly or tell yourself, "I have plenty of time."

Step 3 - Discover ways to slow yourself down. Patience comes with a much slower, even pace.

Harness Patience

Step 1 - Laugh at the situation. Find the humor in what is often a ridiculous situation.

Step 2 - Think about all you have accomplished when you are feeling overwhelmed. Don't focus merely on what remains to be done. Ask for help.

Step 3 - Count to ten. If that doesn't work, count to 100.

Step 4 - Put a pebble in your pocket. When you find yourself getting anxious, move the pebble to the other pocket. Continue moving it from one to the other to interrupt the cycle of your anxiety.
Step 5 - Take daydream trips. When you must wait, visualize the most peaceful place you can. See and feel yourself there.

Step 6 - Take a moment to notice three breaths at a stoplight or when the phone rings. Notice how your breath comes and goes without trying to change it.

Step 7 - Reduce or swear off caffeine. Caffeine is a stimulant that can make us nervous, edgy,and jittery.

The link below is an article entitled "The Power of Patience" by Mary Southerland.

http://legacy.pastors.com/rwmt/article.asp?ArtID=11753

Quote: Learn the art of patience. Apply discipline to your thoughts when they become anxious over the outcome of a goal. Impatience breeds anxiety, fear, discouragement and failure. Patience creates confidence, decisiveness and a rational outlook, which eventually leads to success - Brian Adams