My Own Spiritual Journey and My Life

Income Opportunity

2011-06-09T20:58:00.000-07:00

Reliv's nutritional drinks are amazing! They build the immune system and give you energy, especially the 24K energy drink which has no caffeine and is sugar free. I have tried the ArthAffect, the Optain and the Classic. The pain in my back, caused by arthritis, have substantially decreased.

The business opportunity is great. My friend is doing very well in the business.

Jesus Suffered, Why Shouldn't We

2011-06-08T11:52:00.000-07:00

Things have not been the same since my mom got sick in 2009. I have lost the desire to keep posting on my blog. I do visit occasionally and post something from time to time.

I have had my share of struggles and trials. I lost my job, my mom got sick and then I had to sell my house in order to survive financially. Thank God I have not lost my sanity and my relationship with God. I often remind myself that Jesus, who is sinless, suffered when he was on this earth. I am a sinner by nature, why shouldn't I suffer. God did not promise us that we would not suffer, even if we walk with him. He said, because he suffered we also would suffer. He also said that because the world hates him they would hate us also. If we are a part of the world, the world would love us, because the world love its own.

God does not always answer our prayers immediately, sometimes he wait until the last minute. He is not doing it to tempt us but to strengthen our faith. Although we sometimes cannot see it that way. I think of Abraham who was about to plunge the knife into his son's body as a sacrifice to God, when the angel held back the hand of Abraham. God tested his faith. The Bible says that faith without works is dead.

I have a friend who had been unemployed for four years. She prayed and prayed for a job but still had not found one. Finally, when she stopped worrying and left it with God, not long after she found a job.

I am a distributor for a US company that manufactures health products, but it's not going well.

USE NOAH'S ARK AS A GUIDE IN LIFE

2011-05-08T10:26:00.000-07:00

http://http://www.lcrawfords-manymansions.com/Philosophy/Philosophy%207.htm

You Raised Me Up - Dedicated to my wonderful mom

2010-04-18T10:00:00.000-07:00

It's been a long time since I had the desire to write anything on my blog. Since I lost my job in January, 2009 and then my mother's stroke in July of that same year, things have not been the same for me. My faith has been tested to the limit. I've always prayed and asked God to mold me and shape me to his likeness. I had no idea this is his way of doing so. Although he has given me trials to strenghten my faith he has never left me alone to deal with it.

My mom, after spending seven months in the hospital, is now in a nursing home. Although there has been some improvement in her comprehension, she still cannot eat, talk nor walk. I believe one day she will be able to do at least one of those things.

I would like to dedicate this song to my wonderful mom, "You Raise Me Up" by Josh Groban. http://www.stumbleupon.com/su/1naver/www.utube.com/watch%3Fv%3D6VqR103wa1A. She is a very strong and courageous woman who loves the Lord. She has raised us, six girls, without a father. He died when we were very small.

Thanks mom, for everything. I love you.

Servants Maintain a Low Profile

2009-11-22T09:58:00.000-08:00

I would like to share with you one of the daily newsletters that I've received from Rick Warren.

Servants Maintain a Low Profile by Rick Warren

And all of you must put on the apron of humility, to serve one another; for the scripture says, "God resists the proud, but shows favor to the humble." 1 Peter 5:5 (TEV)

Real servants maintain a low profile. Servants don't promote or call attention to themselves. Instead of acting to impress and dressing for success, they "put on the apron of humility, to serve one another" (1 Peter 5:5 TEV).

If recognized for their service, they humbly accept it but don't allow notoriety to distract them from their work. Paul exposed a kind of service that appears to be spiritual but is really just a put-on, a show, an act to get attention. He called it "eyeservice," serving in order to impress people with how spiritual we are (Ephesians 6:6 KJV; Colossians 3:22 KJV).

This was a sin of the Pharisees. They turned helping others, giving, and even prayer into a performance for others. Jesus hated this attitude and warned, "When you do good deeds, don't try to show off. If you do, you won't get a reward from your Father in heaven" (Matthew 6:1 CEV).

Self-promotion and servanthood don't mix. Real servants don't serve for the approval or applause of others. They live for an audience of One. As Paul said, "If I were still trying to please men, I would not be a servant of Christ" (Galatians 1:10 NIV).

You won't find many real servants in the limelight; in fact, they avoid it whenever possible. They are content with quietly serving in the shadows.

Joseph is a great example. He didn't draw attention to himself, but quietly served Potiphar, then his jailer, then Pharaoh's baker and wine taster, and God blessed that attitude. When Pharaoh promoted him to prominence, Joseph still maintained a servant's heart, even with his brothers, who had betrayed him.

Unfortunately, many leaders today start off as servants but end up as celebrities. They become addicted to attention, unaware that always being in the spotlight blinds you.

You may be serving in obscurity in some small place, feeling unknown and unappreciated. Listen: God put you where you are for a purpose! He has every hair on your head numbered, and he knows your address.

A Spiritual Journey by Wind Walker

2009-11-08T22:10:00.000-08:00

For the past four months I've had very little desire to write on my blog. My spirit has been broken because of the trials I am experiencing. I cannot seem to focus. Occasionally I would post something I find interesting and enjoyable.

I came across this poem by Wind Walker

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A Spiritual Journey by Wind Walker

Across from the mountains,
A little house sits in the trees,
I'm lost in tranquility,
As my soul tries to breathe.

White clouds moving slowly,
The breeze a calm still,
I'm caught in the moment,
As my heart starts to heal.

A piece of me,
In the startling blue sky,
As I spread my wings,
My soul starts to fly.

I fly to unknown places,
Where pain and hurt once dwelled,
As the memories flow pass me,
My eyes start to swell.

Tear drops drip slowly,
Down my cheeks,
The wind wipes them dry,
And gives me some peace.

Soaring so free,
Over water and land,
My Spirit Guide gently,
Takes me by my hand.

He shows me what was,
And what's meant to be,
And why my life,
Is so important it seems.

A long soar,
Like the eagle high,
I bow my head,
And I start to cry.

Back on the land,
Across from the trees,
I began to realize,
What healing means.

It means not to forget,
Let the past flow,
Of all the horrors,
One soul had to go.

To take the strengths,
And apply them to life,
Is a valuable lesson,
I've learnt this flight.

Alone in the sunset,
I watch it go down,
When I finally realize,
What peace I have found.

A Spiritual Journey by Wind Walker @FamilyFriendPoems

Update on my mom after her stroke

2009-09-29T20:58:00.000-07:00

It's been almost three months since my mom had a stroke. She is still in the hospital, waiting to go into a nursing home. She still cannot walk, talk (except for some mumbling sounds) nor eat. She recognizes me and other family members. Judging by the expressions on her face, she seem to understand when I tell her certain things. When I call her she would look at me, which means she understands me.

I've heard of people who have had strokes similar to the one my mom had and they were able to talk, eat and walk again. I was told by the doctor that my mom gets physical therapy twice a week, and they've tried to give her speech therapy but she is unable to follow direction.

It's a good thing that I live only five minutes away from the hospital. Because of that I've been visiting her every evening since she's been there.

Life is very unpredictable.

In Hours Of Discouragement God Is Our Encouragement

2009-09-20T22:12:00.000-07:00

I came across this beautiful poem that will bring comfort to a sad and lonely heart:

Sometimes we feel uncertain, and unsure of everything,
Afraid to make decisions, dreading what the day will bring.
We keep wishing it were possible to dispel all fear and doubt,
and to understand more readily just what life is all about.
God has given us the answers, which too often go unheeded,
But if we search His promises, we'll find everything that's needed.
To lift our faltering spirits and renew our courage, too.
For there's absolutely nothing too much for God to do.
For the Lord is our salvation, and our strength in every fight.
Our redeemer and protector, our eternal guiding light.
He has promised to sustain us, he's our refuge from all harms.
And underneath this refuge, are the everlasting arms.
So cast your burden on Him, Seek His counsel when distressed.
And go to Him for comfort, when you're lonely and oppressed.
For God is our encouragement in trouble and in trials.
And in suffering and in sorrow, he will turn our tears to smiles.

Helen Steiner Rice

But they that wait upon the Lord....

2009-08-26T22:22:00.000-07:00

Smoking infront of a Hospital??

2009-08-23T09:16:00.000-07:00

The following is taken from the back of the SDA Hymnal:

My dear friend, I hope everything is going happily with you and that you are as well physically as you are spiritually.

Your body, you know, is the temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you since you received him from God. You are not your own property; you have been bought and paid for. That is why you should use your body for the glory of God.

Whatever you eat, whatever you drink, whatever you do at all, do it for the glory of God.

There is no need to worry; but if there is anything you need, pray for it, asking God for it with prayer and thanksgiving, and that peace of God, which is so much greater than we can understand, will guard your hearts and your thoughts, in Christ Jesus.

Finally, brothers, fill your minds with everything that is true, everything that is noble, everything that is good and pure, everything that we love and honour, and everything that can be thought virtuous or worthy of praise.

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We sometimes forget that our body is a temple of the Holy Spirit. Each of us has the breath of Christ in us. Remember when Christ created Adam he breathed in him the breath of life, and man became a living soul. Because of that, there's a part of Christ living in everyone of us, regardless of our status. There's a part of Christ living in even those who hate him. He died for us all. That makes us special.

When I see people abusing their bodies by smoking, drinking alcohol, using drugs and eating the wrong foods it upsets me a lot.

One thing in particular that really bothers me is to see people standing infront of a hospital, infront of 'Smoking Prohibited' signs smoking their cigarettes. These people have no regard for others. A lot of people that are in the hospitals are there because of some kind of smoking related sickness.

I visit my mom every day at the Rouge Valley Health Care Hospital in Ajax, and every time I reach the front of the hospital, I get upset because of the smell of smoke. I can only comment on this particular hospital because I don't know if there are others like it.

For the life of me, I don't know why hospitals like this one cannot enforce their rules. These people have no respect for the hospitals and their rules. Some of them would end up with cancer. When they do, that same hospital would be taking care of them. It's a shame.

Prevention is better than cure.

I miss my mom

2009-08-08T20:33:00.000-07:00

Since my mom had a stroke four weeks ago I have not been doing much on my blog. There's so much going on in my life right now. As they say, when it rains it pours. Two of my sisters are here from NY and WV to be with her and for my moral support.

She has improved a little. She recognizes me and my sisters. She is still unable to talk, walk and swallow. She has a feeding tube in her stomach, which she tried to pull out once before. Because of that her hand has to be tied. It's hard to see my mom in that condition. I feel helpless. I managed to get her to smile a few times by fooling around with a little stuffed toy. She has become like a child again. 'Once a man, twice a child' is so true.

I hope and trust that with each passing day she will continue to improve. Although we've been told by the doctors that she will never return to what she was before.

We're trying to find a good nursing home to put her. That is something she's always been against. I grieve for her.

Having a stroke

2009-07-20T21:46:00.000-07:00

A lot have been happening in my life since I've been here, and all at once. One of those things is, my mom had a massive stroke last week that affected the right side of her body. It was very scary. She is now in the ICU. Her prognosis does not look too good. She cannot walk, talk nor even swallow. She is sleeping most of the time. She does open her eyes once in a while. She has movement in her left arm and leg.

Here is a link with information on stroke www.heartandstroke.ca/stroke

4,000 jobs available right now

2009-07-06T10:58:00.000-07:00

I was doing a little internet browsing and found this Youtube video www.youtube.com/watch?v=lM7opmmSEa8 about working from home. Is this for real? Imaging working from home, not having to endure hours of commuting. How convenient. This one looks legit. It's MSNBC - Today's Money and it's working for the IRS. Did you say IRS? Ooops, this is only in the US.

There are so many sites and videos on the internet about making money working from home, you have to be very careful. A lot of them are scams! With so many people without a job right now, this is the time scam artists tend to prey upon people like us. If they cannot tell me on their videos or websites what the job entails, I don't waste my time to register, because most likely they will use my information for their benefit. I would not pay a penny for a job. Not even if it's a $1 or $2 for shipping and handling for a book or kit.

Be aware!

Where one or two are gathered in my name...

2009-07-04T14:38:00.000-07:00

I did not make it to church today although I had planned to go. I woke up this morning with the same annoying pain in my back, right hip and knee that I've had for the past couple of weeks. It was so bad last week that I had to go to the pharmacy to get some medication for it. It was more of a spasm. The Robaxisal that I got seemed to have helped somewhat, until it started again this morning. I don't like taking medication for too long unless it's absolutely necessary.

Therefore I decided to have my own little service in my home, minus the congregation, just me and my mom. "For where two or three are gathered in my name, there am I in the midst of them" - Matthew 18:10.

We listened to some gospel DVDs as we sang along. We also listened to a sermon on the 10th commandment. "Thou shalt not covet thy neighbour's house. Thou shalt not covet thy neighbour's wife, nor his manservant, nor his maidservant, nor his ox, nor his ass, nor anything that is thy neighbour's." - Exodus 20:17. It's a DVD that a friend had given to me on the Ten Commandments series that was held in Chicago. Even though I enjoyed the preaching and singing, it's never the same like going to church.

It's a beautiful day outside. A bit breezy but lots of sunshine. I wanted to take a drive down to the lake with my mom, but knowing my mom, the weather has to be perfect for her to go. It's difficult getting her to go anywhere.

A friend later phoned me and asked if I had gone to the camp meeting in the West end. I had forgotten everything about it. I didn't feel that bad after all because I am sure the church was almost empty since a lot of people had gone to the camp meeting.

I always associate camp meeting with tent and outdoor. I don't know why they would now have it in a hotel. It's just not the same. I used to enjoy camp meetings when it was held in Oshawa under a very large tent. At lunch time most families would set up their own little pic-nic area under the trees and have lunch there. Some would have lunch at friends' homes. Some in their vehicles. After lunch, some would even fall asleep under the trees. By the time the afternoon program is ready to begin, everyone's appetite is satisfied and they are relaxed.

I don't know if the conference would ever have it here in the East end like they used to every year for the past number of years. When I moved to this area three years ago, I thought I would be closer to the camp meeting site. But now that they've moved it in the West end, it's even farther from me. I definitely won't be attending.

It was a beautiful Sabbath day!

May God bless you Michael

2009-06-28T18:29:00.000-07:00

When I first heard the news that Michael Jackson had died, I could not believe it. I was very shocked and saddened at his sudden death. When someone dies suddenly, it's harder to deal with their death than when someone who has been ill for some time dies.

I watched Michael as a little boy performed on many of his TV shows and was marvelled at his superb talent. I thought he was so cute. He was the main attraction of the group.

As time went on, there were many changes about Michael. However, my love for him never changed. Instead of criticizing him for some bad decisions that he had made, I felt sympathy for him. I don't believe it was Michael's fault for some of his unusual behaviour. Something may have happened in his life that caused him to be that way. Plus all the stress that people have caused him. Perhaps he never received the care that he should have.

I am amazed at how some of the same people who built him up, also broke him down. Perhaps to them, he was too successful. He was criticized, mocked and accused. He was under a tremendous amount of stress. A lot of people began to hate him, more so for his unusual transformation and for child molestation accusations. They were very cruel to him. His true fans were always loyal to him. I am one of them. As I mentioned before, I felt more sympathy for him than hate.

For those who criticized and hated Michael, remember when Mary Magdelene was brought before Jesus. They wanted to stone her to death. What did Jesus say to them? "He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her". None of them could have done that because they knew they were all sinners, so they left.

Do you think Jesus, who is sinless, would have condemned Michael? No. But those who lie, cheat, steal and perhaps more horrible things, had condemned him for things they did not like about him. Some of these things were not even proven.

Goodbye Michael. Rest in peace. The peace you never got when you were alive. Your music would always remind us of you.

The link below is Lisa Marie Presley blogs about Michael Jackson's death and how it affects her:

www.aceshowbiz.com/news/view/00025327.html

'I am watching my cholesterol'

2009-06-25T19:12:00.000-07:00

I was walking through the dessert section in the grocery store the other day, and could have only looked at the many mouth-watering cakes, pies and other desserts but was afraid to buy any because 'I am watching my cholesterol'.

We're constantly reminded by the media and health magazines about foods we should avoid in order to maintain good health and a healthy cholesterol level. I could not help but wonder, if most of us should avoid these foods (with a high cholesterol, fat and sugar content), then are these desserts there for only the skinny, young and healthy. A lot of young people are now overweight, so maybe they're there for only those that are skinny and healthy. If we are told to avoid these foods, then why put them in our view where we can be tempted.

That made me think of when God put Adam and Eve in the garden and told them they can eat from every other tree, but not to eat from the tree in the middle of the garden. He gave them a choice. They disobeyed, and unfortunately we're all paying for their choice.

Genesis 2:9 - And the Lord God made all kinds of trees grow out of the ground - -trees that were pleasing to the eye and good for food. In the middle of the garden were the tree of life and the tree of the knowledge of good and evil.

Genesis 3:3 - But God did say "You must not eat fruit from the tree that is in the middle of the garden and you must not touch it or you will die."

So too, we have choices. We can choose to stay away from those attractive and tasty desserts and be healthy, or we can choose to enjoy them and pay the consequences.

I don't consider myself overweight, but I can lose a few pounds. I try to avoid that section of the store. Life is not fair, is it? Why can't they make desserts for people who are 'watching their cholesterol'.

The Wolves Within

2009-06-21T21:37:00.000-07:00

An old grandfather said to his grandson who came to him with anger at a friend who had done him an injustice, "Let me tell you a story.

I too, at times, have felt a great hate for those that have done me wrong and have taken so much, with no sorrow for what they've done.

But hate wears you done, and does not hurt your enemy. It is like taking poison and wishing your enemy would die. I have struggled with these feelings many times", he continued. "It is as if two wolves are inside me. One is good and does not harm. He lives in harmony with all around him, and does not take offense when no offense was intended. He will only fight when it is right to do so, and in the right way.

But the other wolf, ah, he is full of anger. The smallest thing will set him into a fit of temper. He fights everyone all the time for no reason. He cannot think because his anger and hate are so great. It is helpless anger, for his anger will change nothing.

Sometimes it is hard to live with these two wolves inside me, for both of them try to dominate my spirit".

The boy looked intently into his grandfather's eyes and asked, "Which one wins, grandfather?"

The grandfather smiled and quietly said, "The one I feed".

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"Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else. You are the one who gets burned".

What is Faith?

2009-06-13T21:33:00.000-07:00

Faith means to believe and trust completely. Faith is not something that happens to you, it is something that happens in you. It also means believing in something or someone you cannot see.

For we walk by faith, not by sight, 2 Corinthians 5:7.

Those who do not believe there's a God because they cannot see him, even though there's evidence of his existence, do not have faith.

So then Faith cometh by hearing and hearing by the word of God - Romans 10:17

But without Faith it is impossible to please Him: for he that cometh to God must believe that He is, and that He is a rewarder of them that deligently seek Him - Hebrews 11:6

Now Faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen. Hebrews 11:1Peter walking on water demonstrates faith, when he asked Jesus the water. It also onstrates

And Peter answered him and said, "Lord, if it be thou, bid me come unto thee on the water." - Matthew 14:28

29 - And he said, "Come". And when Peter was come down out of the ship, he walked on the water, to go to Jesus.

30 - But when he saw the wind boisterous, he was afraid; and beginning to sink, he cried, saying, "Lord, save me."

31 - And immediately Jesus stretched forth his hand, and caught him, and said unto him, "O thou of little faith, wherefore didst thou doubt?"

Faith is totally trusting God and not doubting. Most people base their faith on the result of their prayer request. If they've had a prayer answered, the level of their faith will more than likely be higher than if they've not received an answer to their prayers. They may say, I pray before for something and never received it, how am I to believe this time that I will get my prayer answered.

Another example of demonstrated faith is Abraham, who was about to use his only son, Isaac, as a sacrifice to God. He had so much faith in God, that obeying God was more important that sparing his only son's life. Perhaps deep down in Abraham's heart he believed that God would never take the life of his only son. God did not need to test Abraham's faith to find out how deep his faith was because God knows everything even before it happens. But he wanted to test Abraham's faith to prove a point to Abraham himself, or as a lesson to the rest of us. Just as Abraham was about to plunge the knife into Isaac's body, the angel held back his hand.

Why did God take Abraham's faith to the brink?

Just think of how many times God has put our faith to the test, to the point where we cannot take it anymore. It's at the point when we're at the brink that he intervenes. He never gives us more than we can bear.

I am facing some very difficult times in my life right now, like a lot of other people. I ask myself, could it be that God is using this to strengthen me for even more difficult times ahead? Yet, I do believe that God will work out something for me.

I've heard that a tree is strengthened by the storms it withstands. I think especially of the palm tree and how it seem to withstand storm after storm. Some trees would be uprooted, some will break, but the palm tree will be tossed back and forth and bend to the ground, but after the storm has passed it will bounce right back up because of its flexibility.

The Bible says that "the righteous shall flourish like a palm tree, planted in the house of the Lord, they will flourish in the courts of our God. (Psalm 92: 12-13).

When we go through the storms of life, we need to remember the palm tree.

David Letterman's comment or 'joke' about Sarah Palin's daughter

2009-06-12T09:57:00.000-07:00

I personally did not find it funny. What may be a 'joke' to one person, may be pain or insult to another. Humiliating or derogative comments about anyone are not funny. There are so many other things to trample on other than young women's self esteem. How insensitive.

I agree with Sarah Palin. He should apologize not only to her daughter, but to women. It is sad how women are looked upon as sex objects in our society.

How about making jokes about yourself, Mr. Letterman. That way no one would be offended but you, and I'm sure you won't want to offend yourself, therefore you would be very careful what you say.

I would love to hear other people's views. Leave me your comments, or vote at the bottom, right side of this page.

To read the full story on Today (powered by msnbc.com) click on the link below:

http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/31275358/?GT1=43001#storyContinued

Flowers are God's gifts to us

2009-06-10T22:25:00.000-07:00

Now that the warm weather is here and the frost has gone, the flowers in my small garden are finally showing life again. The roses have begun to bud. The butterfly bush and the hibiscus seem to take a while longer.

I bought two beautiful baskets of deep pink petunias today to hang on my fence. I really would have preferred if they were mixed with another colour - perhaps pink and white, but I could'nt find any. Didn't have a camera available to take a picture of them.

I am crazy about flowers. My eldest sister who lives in WV is more obsessed with flowers than I am. Everytime I phoned her and there's no answer, I know right away she's in the garden. I once bought her a small wall plaque that reads "I live in the garden, I only sleep in the house". It fits her perfectly.

Even though I like all flowers, some of my favourites are the daliahs, peony, clamatis, roses and daisies, to name a few.

I wonder how do they come up with the names for flowers. There are thousands of them. Some of the names I have a difficult time remembering. I came across this website on 'How Flowers Get Their Names' www.pss.uvm.edu/ppp/articles/flowname.html

Reliv International distributor

2009-06-09T23:08:00.000-07:00

Now that I am a Reliv International distributor, I've been spending a lot of time trying to learn more about the business and the nutritional products. I've also been trying, with the help of Yola, to create a website (nothing fancy) to promote my business.

I've been using the drinks for about a month and I've noticed an improvement in my energy and my memory. I've also listened to a lot of people who claim how these nutritional drinks have improved their health.

One of the things that I like about the company is that they've opened feeding centres in Haiti, the Philippeans and other poor countries to nourish the people, especially the children. I was impressed. I am proud to be a part of this company.

Below are links on Reliv nutritional products:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7_A5p2RBQ2U

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZpB5G1h5rlQ

If anyone would like to order the products or become a distributor, please let me know in the Comment field. Do not leave your address nor phone #. Google will send me an email with your comment for me to decide whether I want to accept the comment or not. Instead of me replying to your comment, which would show up in my blog, I would contact you directly via your email address.

I Couldn't Be There Today

2009-06-02T21:04:00.000-07:00

I came across this poem today which I had saved on my computer. It was written by my sister in West Virginia for my uncle (my mom's brother) who passed away in his sleep two years ago. No one expected it to happen as we had spoken to him just a few days before and his voice was very strong. He never complained about any illness. He had lived in London, England. We all miss him very much.

He and his wife were married for over fifty years. When someone you've been married to for so many years passes away, I guess it can be compared to losing a part of your body. One year after his passing away, she followed him.

I COULDN’T BE THERE TODAY

Though we were miles apart,
We always kept in touch.
Distance was no barrier,
Of the love we feel so much.

You call me often when I was sick,
I thought that I would die.
You gave me words of encouragement,
You built my hopes up high.

Now I am ok and you are gone,
You did not say goodbye.
You slipped away quietly,
But I understand why.

You went to be with Jesus,
A place of peace and rest.
Sleep in Jesus, dear uncle,
Lay your head upon his breast.

Until that day when we reunite,
Sleep in Jesus dear uncle.
It won’t always be night.

Love,
Your niece, Jenetha.

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Go light your world

2009-05-31T22:46:00.001-07:00

Favourite quotes: I am only one, but I am one. I cannot do everything, but I can do something. And I will not let what I cannot do interfere with what I can do. ~Edward Everett Hale

Nobody made a greater mistake than he who did nothing because he could only do a little. ~Edmund Burke

If you can't feed a hundred people, then feed just one. ~Mother Teresa

Wherever a man turns he can find someone who needs him. ~Albert Schweitzer

Nobody can do everything, but everyone can do something. ~Author Unknown
While earning your daily bread, be sure you share a slice with those less fortunate. ~Quoted in P.S. I Love You, compiled by H. Jackson Brown, Jr.

How far that little candle throws his beams!So shines a good deed in a naughty world.~William Shakespeare, Merchant of Venice, much later adapted to "So shines a good deed in a weary world" by David Seltzer for the 1971 film Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory

If we could all hear one another's prayers, God might be relieved of some of his burdens. ~Ashleigh Brilliant

I expect to pass through life but once. If therefore, there be any kindness I can show, or any good thing I can do to any fellow being, let me do it now, and not defer or neglect it, as I shall not pass this way again. ~William Penn

The Lord loveth a cheerful giver. He also accepteth from a grouch. ~Catherine Hall

The Lord loveth a cheerful giver. He also accepteth from a grouch. ~Catherine Hall

At the Appointed Time

2009-05-31T14:29:00.000-07:00

When we pray to God for something and we do not receive it within a certain time, we begin to lose faith and wonder if God really hears us. Sometimes we wonder if there's something in our lives that's preventing God from hearing our prayers. He does not always answer our prayers immediately, unless we're in immediate danger, nor does he answer our prayers on our terms.

Below are the words in an email I received today from a brother in Christ. Just thought I'd share it with you.

TODAY'S SCRIPTURE - At the Appointed Time "For the vision is yet for an appointed time…it will surely come; it will not be behind hand on its appointed day"(Habakkuk 2:3, AMP).

God is looking for people who have a made-up mind; people who will trust His timing. You may not see His promises happen overnight, but they will happen.

In the Bible, Abraham waited 20 years to have a son and see his promise come to pass. Moses waited 40 years to fulfill his purpose and lead the children of Israel out of captivity.

You might say, “I’ve been waiting for a year, and I don’t see anything happening.” No, something is happening. Right now, God is working behind the scenes in your life. He is arranging the right people, the right breaks and the right opportunities.

Today’s scripture tells us that at the appointed time, the promise will come to pass, and it will not be one second late! When is the appointed time? It’s when God knows the timing is best for you. When you understand and accept this principle, it takes all the pressure off you. It’s very comforting to live knowing that as long as we stay in faith, God will release His favor, His increase, His restoration, and His healing at exactly the right time in our lives!

A PRAYER FOR TODAY. Father in heaven, thank You for working behind the scenes in my life. I trust that the appointed time for me is on its way. I am content in You, knowing that You have a good plan for my future. I bless you today and always. In Jesus’ Name. Amen

Internet Cafe Devotions: Yield to be Filled

2009-05-31T13:09:00.000-07:00

Internet Cafe Devotions: Yield to be Filled

Reliv meeting

2009-05-28T21:50:00.000-07:00

I went to a Reliv meeting tonight and was quite impressed with some of the stories I've heard. Some claimed that since they've been drinking these powdered drinks they longer experience pain in their joints, their high blood pressure went down, they no longer feel constantly tired, and so on. I just started using the drinks a week ago and have not yet noticed a big improvement. There are times, however, when I feel a little more energetic than usual.

There's also a great opportunity to earn an income by telling others how these nutritional drinks have improved their health. Most people have at least one health issue, and everyone would do what they can to be more healthy.

The guy that signed me up is earning close to $2,000 a month. What I like about the company is: 1) there's a 90% money-back guarantee if you're not satisfy with the products, 2) the company provides critically needed supplements to malnourished children around the world through its nonprofit organization, the Reliv Kalogris Foundation and 3) everyone seem very helpful in helping others to succeed in the business.

The misery of allergies

2009-05-27T21:37:00.000-07:00

I am sitting here feeling very frustrated with the many symptoms of allergies. My eyes sting, run, itch and burn. Sometimes (very often) it feels like there's a film over my eyes. Even if I rub them, it does not help. It's very annoying, especially when I'm driving or on my computer. My sinuses are congested, nose stuffy. Is there an end to my suffering?

If I was allergic to any type of foods all I have to do is stop eating that food, but when I am allergic to something in the air, how can I avoid that? I can't prevent myself from breathing and I cannot always stay indoors.

I am allergic to dust, ragweed, pollen, vehicle exhaust and cigarette smoke (I don't smoke, never did, never will. I detest it). I cannot take any medication because of HBP.

Why can't they find a cure for allergies. I believe they don't want to. If they do, who would buy the vast number of allergy medication on the shelves? I guess I would have to continue to suffer until that great day.

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2009-05-27T14:05:00.000-07:00

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The Secret to Managing Frustrations

2009-05-26T22:37:00.000-07:00

I get daily devotions from Pastor Rick Warren and felt the need to pass this one on to my readers since, I believe, everyone encounters situations that frustrates them from time to time. However, not everyone reacts the same.

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"A man's wisdom gives him patience..." (Proverbs 19:11 NIV).

It's amazing how fifteen minor frustrations at the office can add up to one big, bad attitude by the time you head for home. Frustrations come in three varieties:

1. Interruptions: Unexpected visitors or phone calls when you have a deadline to meet or something important requires your attention. Our best plans are often interrupted.

2. Inconveniences: While interruptions are usually from people, inconveniences are usually situations involving things: the copy machine breaks down, traffic jams up, or you can't find what you need when you need it.

3. Irritations: Long delays, unreliable people, playing telephone tag, catching a cold, obnoxious clients, etc.

But the truth is you can't eliminate these. No doubt you'll face all three varieties this week, but you can keep them from stressing you out.

What's the secret of managing your frustrations?

Don't resist it, but don't overreact or blow up. Don't resent it; don't internalize you anger. Don't resign to it; don't have a pity-party.

Instead, reduce it. Treat it as insignificant. Put the frustration into proper perspective. It's just a minor setback, a part of living, no big deal! It's certainly not worth a heart attack. Follow these rules for stress management:

RULE #1: Don't sweat the small stuff.•
RULE #2: Realize it's all small stuff!

The Bible says, "A man's wisdom gives him patience..." (Proverbs 19:11 NIV). The only way we can see all stuff as small stuff is to view it from God's perspective. When I am in tune with God, I remember he has everything under control even though I don't! So I don't have to sweat it: "The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control" (Galatians 5:22-23 NIV).

Pray this prayer: "Lord, help me to be filled with your love, joy, and peace, so that when I'm squeezed and pressured it is your love, joy, and peace that spill out of me."

Protecting our children from the devil's trap

2009-05-24T22:51:00.000-07:00

Victoria “Tori” Stafford disappeared on April 8th while walking home from school, which, I understand, is just a few minutes walk to her home. Victoria was last seen in a surveillance video walking with a woman away from her school, (like an animal being taken away to be slaughtered).

When I first heard it on the news I was hoping for a happy end to this tragic story and that she would be found alive, but after a week or two went by, and judging from the outcome of past disappearances of little children across Canada, I began to lose hope.

After 42 days, 28-year-old Michael Rafferty and Terri-Lynne McClintic were arrested in the case.

I cannot imagine what satisfaction anyone can get from taking the life of a child. When a person can use an innocent child for their own sexual gratification, you know that person is being controlled by the devil. We’re living in a very sick and evil world.

I heard someone said on a radio station that parents should give their children a password so that if anyone comes to pick them up from school, the child should ask the person for the password. That’s a lot of pressure to put on children, to expect them to remember a password. Can a child of 5 or 6 remember a password? Parents need to be praying for the safety of their children.

http://video.msn.com/video.aspx/?mkt=en-ca&brand=sympatico&tab=m1388&vid=4168c987-9932-45d3-bd51-165583f9dfec&playlist=videoByTag:tag:encanews_encatopstories:ns:MSNVideo_Top_Cat:mk:en-ca:sf:DailyCount:st:1:vs:0&from=msnhpslider&wa=wsignin1.0

Ecc. 9:3 - Show Context - This is the evil in everything that happens under the sun: The same destiny overtakes all. The hearts of men, moreover, are full of evil and there is madness in their hearts while they live, and afterward they join the dead.

Mt 5:21 - Show Context - You have heard that it was said to the people long ago, 'Do not murder, and anyone who murders will be subject to judgment.'

Nu 35:21 - Show Context - … or if in hostility he hits him with his fist so that he dies, that person shall be put to death; he is a murderer. The avenger of blood shall put the murderer to death when he meets him.

I think this song "Held" by Natalie Grant fits this situation. Click on the link below to listen YouTube - Natalie grant held

Fruited Rice Pudding Recipe

2009-05-21T21:13:00.000-07:00

Every once in a while I would have the desire to try a new recipe. I went searching for one and came across this healthy recipe on MayoClinic.com that I would like to pass on to you.

Ingredients

2 cups water
1 cup long-grain rice
4 cups evaporated fat-free milk
1/2 cup brown sugar
1/2 teaspoon lemon zest
1 teaspoon vanilla extract
6 egg whites
1/4 cup crushed pineapple
1/4 cup raisins
1/4 cup chopped apricots

Directions

In a medium saucepan, bring 2 cups of water to a boil. Add the rice and cook about 10 minutes. Pour into a colander and drain thoroughly.

In the same saucepan, add the evaporated milk and brown sugar. Cook until hot. Add the cooked rice, lemon zest and vanilla extract. Simmer over low heat until the mixture is thick and the rice is tender, about 30 minutes Remove from the heat and cool.

In a small bowl, whisk together the egg whites. Pour into the rice mixture. Add the pineapple, raisins and apricots. Stir until well blended.

Preheat the oven to 325 F. Lightly coat a baking dish with cooking spray.

Spoon the pudding and fruit mixture into the baking dish. Bake until the pudding is set, about 20 minutes.

Serve warm or cold.

What is it about alcohol.....

2009-05-18T22:08:00.000-07:00

that so many people seem to crave it. Alcohol is a drug that is widely accepted by society, even though it destroys families and relationships and is the number one cause of many accidents on our roads, which quite often results in the untimely deaths of many innocent people.

There are many reasons people drink alcohol. Curiosity is still a prevalent reason for alcohol consumption by young people. We are constantly bombarded with messages promoting alcohol use. Another reason for alcohol consumption is stress reduction, which really does not get rid of the stress itself. All it does is it helps the person to forget about the stress for a while. Everyone of us experiences stress in our lives, but not everyone of us use alcohol as an escape from our stress. I do believe those who do are weak and do not have stamina.

I passed by a liquor store some time ago and noticed behind the glass window bottles of various brands of wine and rum decorated with flowers. I tried to see the connection between both, but could not. All I saw was a display of psychology.

1 Corinthians 6:9-10--"Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolators, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, nor thieves, not covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God."

Proverbs 20:1--"Wine is a mocker, strong drink is raging, and whosoever is deceived thereby is not wise." A person who becomes drunk is a fool. He may think the wine is doing something good for him, but it is mocking in every way.

Links with information on alcohol:

http://science.education.nih.gov/supplements/nih3/alcohol/guide/info-alcohol.htm

http://www.narconon.ca/Alcohol.htm

A prayer for the economy and for those who are suffering

2009-05-17T00:08:00.000-07:00

Are you hurting, lonely, lost a loved one or suffering with an illness, lost your job or facing other difficulties in your life and you can’t seem to find a way out? Remember, you’re not alone. There are millions of others like you and myself who are in the same boat. Suffering and sorrow are a part of life. We cannot live a perfect life in an imperfect world. Knowing this, however, doesn't make it any easier to cope when you find yourself in the midst of the deepest, darkest trials of faith.

Sometimes when our suffering seems more than we can bear, we wonder why is God allowing this to happen to us, but suffering sometimes helps to shape our character and strengthen us.

Who knows more about suffering than Jesus. He knows more about being hurt and humiliated. He remembers the terrible moment on the cross when his Father was forced to abandon him, because he was terribly stained with our sins.

Romans 3:23: For ALL HAVE SINNED and come short of the glory of God.

"Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:"

When you're angry and bitter you can still trust in Jesus in the midst of your tears. You can hold onto him and refuse to let go until he brings you through it. You'll find, to your surprise, that he holds on to you even tighter than you hold on to him.

It takes real spiritual maturity to stay faithful when things go wrong, but severing our relationship with God punishes us, not him.

Php. 4:6 - Show Context
Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.

Luke 12:7:
7But even the very hairs of your head are all numbered. Fear not therefore: ye are of more value than many sparrows.

Prayer:

Father God, in the blessed name of your son, Jesus, I ask that you to bless those reading this post at this very minute. I also ask that you provide a job for those who are unemployed and experiencing financial hardships in their lives. You’ve promised to provide for us our every need. I ask that you comfort those who are lonely and discouraged. Heal those who are sick and strengthen their bodies. You’ve created us and you know what our needs are. You know us better than we know ourselves. I pray that you fill our hearts with your peace and love. Let there be peace also in this troubled world. Help us to be more sensitive to the needs of those who are impoverished. I ask you father to strengthen the world economy and direct our governments and leaders. This I ask in the holy name of Jesus. Amen.

Proverbs 29:2 (Whole Chapter) When the righteous are in authority, the people rejoice: but when the wicked beareth rule, the people mourn.

2Ch 7:14 - Show Context - If my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then will I hear from heaven and will forgive their sin and will heal their land.

The wise old man....

2009-05-14T11:54:00.000-07:00

My cousin is always sending me these wonderful emails and slide shows that make me stop and reflect. We all should be like this gentleman. The guidelines to happiness, according to this wise old gentleman, are: 1) Free our hearts from hate, 2) Free your mind from worry, 3) Live simple, 4) Give more, 5) Expect less. Enjoy this slide show: http://www.slideshare.net/ohteikbin/the-wise-old-man-395772.

Thanks Judy!

Marriages of the Bible

2009-05-13T23:09:00.000-07:00

I did not realize there were so many marriages mentioned in the Bible. Following is a list of some of them:

Ge 2:22 - Show Context
Then the Lord God made a woman from the rib he had taken out of the man, and he brought her to the man.

Ex 2:21 - Show Context
Moses agreed to stay with the man, who gave his daughter Zipporah to Moses in marriage.

De 22:16 - Show Context
The girl's father will say to the elders, "I gave my daughter in marriage to this man, but he dislikes her.

Jos 15:16 - Show Context
And Caleb said, "I will give my daughter Acsah in marriage to the man who attacks and captures Kiriath Sepher."

Jos 15:17 - Show Context
Othniel son of Kenaz, Caleb's brother, took it; so Caleb gave his daughter Acsah to him in marriage.

Jud 1:13 - Show Context
Othniel son of Kenaz, Caleb's younger brother, took it; so Caleb gave his daughter Acsah to him in marriage.

Jud 3:6 - Show Context
They took their daughters in marriage and gave their own daughters to their sons, and served their gods.

Jud 12:9 - Show Context
He had thirty sons and thirty daughters. He gave his daughters away in marriage to those outside his clan, and for his sons he brought in thirty young women as wives from outside his clan. Ibzan led Israel seven years.

Jud 21:1 - Show Context
The men of Israel had taken an oath at Mizpah: "Not one of us will give his daughter in marriage to a Benjamite."

Jud 21:7 - Show Context
"How can we provide wives for those who are left, since we have taken an oath by the Lord not to give them any of our daughters in marriage?"

1Sa 18:17 - Show Context
Saul said to David, "Here is my older daughter Merab. I will give her to you in marriage; only serve me bravely and fight the battles of the Lord." For Saul said to himself, "I will not raise a hand against him. Let the Philistines do that!"

1Sa 18:19 - Show Context
So when the time came for Merab, Saul's daughter, to be given to David, she was given in marriage to Adriel of Meholah.

1Ki 2:21 - Show Context
So she said, "Let Abishag the Shunammite be given in marriage to your brother Adonijah."

1Ki 11:19 - Show Context
Pharaoh was so pleased with Hadad that he gave him a sister of his own wife, Queen Tahpenes, in marriage.

De 23:2 - Show Context
No one born of a forbidden marriage nor any of his descendants may enter the assembly of the Lord, even down to the tenth generation.

Make Blogger A Better Place To Blog: How I get traffic to my blog?

2009-05-13T13:45:00.000-07:00

Make Blogger A Better Place To Blog: How I get traffic to my blog?

Mother's Day gift

2009-05-11T10:03:00.000-07:00

It was a beautiful day yesterday for Mother's Day. The skies were blue and the sun was shining with a nice soft, cool breeze.

I gave my mom a lovely bouquet and a big hug. My son also gave her another bouquet. He gave me a small filing cabinet, something that I needed to help me to be more organized. The piles of papers lying around on my desk must have given him a clue. I also had a BBQ dinner with him and his girlfriend and her family. I enjoyed it very much.

My mom's the best. She is a very strong and courageous lady. She took care of us six girls all by herself after my father died. When he died my oldest sister was, I believe, 18 years of age. I am sure it wasn't easy. She is now 86. She can be very humorous at times. She enjoys her solitude and prefers to be alone or with close family members rather than in large groups. Every night and every morning she sits in her chair and reads her Bible. She has a close relationship with her God.

She became very ill six months ago and was in the hospital for a few weeks. She scared us all. She has regained her strength and is now walking again. My mom is a fighter. I would not dare put a picture of her here. She is a very private person.

Happy Mother's Day!

2009-05-09T23:57:00.000-07:00

Happy Mother's Day to my mom and all other mothers. I hope you have a wonderful day, free from chores.

The following sermon was taken from Preaching Today.com:

What It Takes to Be a Mother by Mark Mitchell

Exodus 2:1-10 ; Numbers 26:59 ; Hebrews 11:23

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Text: Exodus 2:1–10; Numbers 26:59; Hebrews 11:23

Topic: Learning how to be a mother marked by faith

Introduction

On Mother's Day I like to remind everyone to be good to their mothers and appreciate them more. But today's message is not about how to be good to your mother; today's message is about a mother who had to make some hard choices for the welfare of her son.
Being a mother or a father isn't for the faint of heart. It requires some tough decisions—decisions that are risky and heart-wrenching, decisions that require faith.

Jochebed: A finely drawn portrait of a mother with faith

I'd like for us to reflect on the story of Jochebed, the mother of Moses (Numbers 26:59).
Jochebed is mentioned only a few times in Scripture, but she provides a finely drawn portrait of a mother with faith.
Hebrews 11:23
Because Israel had become a threat to the reigning Pharaoh, he forced them into slavery.
When they continued to grow and prosper, he commanded the Hebrew midwives to throw their newborn sons into the Nile to die.
It was during this reign of terror that Jochebed became pregnant with her third child.
Illustration: Mitchell lists modern-day mothers who are living under trying circumstances.
Every conscientious parent knows how dangerous it is to grow up in our world!
In the dangerous world in which she found herself, Jochebed stands out because she did what she could to save her child.
When she could do no more, she depended totally on the faithfulness of God, making her a model of faith.

Jochebed had a courageous faith

Hebrews 11:23
Though the king said all the male Hebrew babies had to be thrown into the Nile, Jochebed and her husband disobeyed the king and hid Moses for three months. That takes courage!
Illustration: Drawing from personal experiences, Mitchell explains just how difficult it must have been to hide the baby.
We often think of faith as passive—this whole idea of "let go and let God." But real faith is active and willing to take risks.
Illustration: Mitchell lists modern-day mothers who show a courageous faith.

Jochebed had a sensible faith

After three months of hiding her baby, she saw the handwriting on the wall. So, she made a little wicker basket, covered it with tar and pitch to make it float, and put it in the reeds on the banks of the Nile.
The word "basket" is the same word used for "ark" (i.e. Noah), emphasizing the dangerous environment in which Moses was placed.
Still, what Jochebed did was not careless; it was sensible.
She didn't just put him in the Nile and wave good-bye; she had Moses' older sister stand at a distance to find out what would happen to him.
Illustration: Mitchell shares a humorous story about how one woman cleverly dealt with a small fire at her daughter's wedding.
Illustration: Mitchell lists examples where the sensibility required of a mother is far more consequential.

Jochebed's courageous, sensible faith was rewarded

As Moses floated along the banks of the Nile, the daughter of Pharaoh arrived with her maidens. She saw the basket and had it brought to her.
It was standard procedure for a wealthy woman to hire a wet nurse to feed a child until he/she was weaned, and the wet nurse would be the legal guardian during those first years.
At just the right time, Moses' sister moved in and made an offer to help fulfill that custom.
Moses' sister went to find Jochebed, who not only got to raise her child, but now got paid for her work!
Surely you see God's hand in all of this!
There are things mothers can do, but ultimately they have to leave it in God's hands.
Illustration: Mitchell lists ways modern-day mothers have to learn how to let go of some things in life.
One of the interesting things about this passage is the prominent role women with motherly instincts play in the story: Jochebed "saw" that Moses was beautiful; Pharaoh's daughter "saw" the basket and "saw" the child crying; Moses' sister stood in the wings to "know" or "notice" what would happen and when to act.
All of this foreshadows what God would soon do for his people.
In Exodus 2:25, it says that God "saw"—same word—"the sons of Israel, and God took notice"—same word—"of them."
It was God's motherly instincts to "see" us as worthy of delivering from our utterly helpless state through the death, burial, and resurrection of his own Son.

Conclusion

Illustration: Mitchell offers a final humorous story to illustrate the importance of mothers. As one woman put it: mothers are "socializing … homosapiens into the dominant values of the Judeo-Christian tradition, in order that they might be instruments for the transformation of the social order into the kind of eschatological utopia that God willed from the beginning of creation."
Mothers, your ultimate purpose is to foster a courageous, sensible faith that will instill in your children a knowledge of, a faith in, and a love for this God who sees and knows your child's deepest need for salvation and has decisively moved to accomplish it through the work of Jesus.
Don't worry—it's not all up to you! God is partnering with you.

We reap what we sow

2009-05-06T21:14:00.000-07:00

My cousin sent me this email today and I thought I'd share it with you. You may have seen it before.

Remarks from CBS Sunday Morning (everyone should read!) I only hope we find God again before it is too late!!

The following was written by Ben Stein and recited by him on CBS Sunday Morning Commentary. My confession: I am a Jew, and every single one of my ancestors was Jewish. And it does not bother me even a little bit when people call those beautiful lit up, bejeweled trees, Christmas trees.. I don't feel threatened. I don't feel discriminated against. That's what they are: Christmas trees. It doesn't bother me a bit when people say, 'Merry Christmas' to me. I don't think they are slighting me or getting ready to put me in a ghetto. In fact, I kind of like it It shows that we are all brothers and sisters celebrating this happy time of year. It doesn't bother me at all that there is a manger scene on display at a key intersection near my beach house in Malibu .. If people want a creche, it's just as fine with me as is the Menorah a few hundred yards away. I don't like getting pushed around for being a Jew, and I don't think Christians like getting pushed around for being Christians. I think people who believe in God are sick and tired of getting pushed around, period. I have no idea where the concept came from that America is an explicitly atheist country. I can't find it in the Constitution and I don't like it being shoved down my throat. Or maybe I can put it another way: where did the idea come from that we should worship celebrities and we aren't allowed to worship God as we understand Him? I guess that's a sign that I'm getting old, too. But there are a lot of us who are wondering where these celebrities came from and where the America we knew went to. In light of the many jokes we send to one another for a laugh, this is a little different: This is not intended to be a joke; it's not funny, it's intended to get you thinking. Billy Graham's daughter was interviewed on the Early Show and Jane Clayson asked her 'How could God let something like this happen?' (regarding Katrina) Anne Graham gave an extremely profound and insightful response. She said, 'I believe God is deeply saddened by this, just as we are, but for years we've been telling God to get out of our schools, to get out of our government and to get out of our lives. And being the gentleman He is, I believe He has calmly backed out. How can we expect God to give us His blessing and His protection if we demand He leave us alone?' In light of recent events... Terrorists attack, school shootings, etc. I think it started when Madeleine Murray O'Hare (she was murdered, her body found a few years ago) complained she didn't want prayer in our schools, and we said OK. Then someone said you better not read the Bible in school. The Bible says thou shalt not kill, thou shalt not steal, and love your neighbor as yourself. And we said OK. Then Dr. Benjamin Spock said we shouldn't spank our children when they misbehave because their little personalities would be warped and we might damage their self-esteem (Dr Spock's son committed suicide). We said an expert should know what he's talking about. And we said OK.Now we're asking ourselves why our children have no conscience, why they don't know right from wrong, and why it doesn't bother them to kill strangers, their classmates, and themselves.Probably, if we think about it long and hard enough, we can figure it out. I think it has a great deal to do with 'WE REAP WHAT WE SOW.' Funny how simple it is for people to trash God and then wonder why the world's going to hell Funny how we believe what the newspapers say, but question what the Bible says. Funny how you can send 'jokes' through e-mail and they spread like wildfire but when you start sending messages regarding the Lord, people think twice about sharing. Funny how lewd, crude, vulgar and obscene articles pass freely through cyberspace, but public discussion of God is suppressed in the school and workplace. Are you laughing yet? Funny how when you forward this message, you will not send it to many on Your address list because you're not sure what they believe, or what they Will think of you for sending it. Funny how we can be more worried about what other people think of us than what God thinks of us. Pass it on if you think it has merit. If not then just discard it... no one will know you did. But, if you discard this thought process, don't sit back and complain about what bad shape the world is in.

My Best Regards, Honestly and respectfully, Ben Stein

What's for breakfast?

2009-05-04T22:20:00.000-07:00

To me, breakfast is the most difficult meal in terms of knowing what to prepare and the most important meal of the day. Some people skip breakfast, which is not good. It's like trying to drive a car without gas. Because it's the first meal of the day, your body needs the nutrients to carry you through until lunch.

This Asparagus Omelet is a good example of a good breakfast. Asparagus is a good source of vitamins and minerals.

Main Ingredients:

3 organic eggs:

6 asparagus spears,

1 tbsp. grated parmesan cheese (or 1 tbsp cheddar cheese)

1/2 tbsp olive oil

1 tbsp. fresh lemon juice

1 tbsp. salt and pepper

Directions:

1. Preheat the oven to 400 F (200 C). Place an oven proof pan with 1/2 tbsp olive oil in the oven.

2. Cut off the bottom tough part of the asparagus spears.

3. Steam them for 5 minutes or until tender. Alternatively you can boil them with a little bit of salt. Cut them into 2 cm (1 inch) pieces.

4. Meanwhile, whisk eggs, cheese, salt and pepper to blend well.

5. Remove the heated pan from the oven. Transfer asparagus pieces into the pan. Pour the egg mixture over it.

6. Place the pan in the oven and cook for 10 min or until done.

7. Serve it with fresh lemon juice.

Bon Appetit!

How to be more patient

2009-05-02T22:36:00.000-07:00

Everywhere I go I see people who seem very impatient and frustrated. Some may have developed the habit or behaviour over a period of time, maybe in dealing with arrogant, jealous, selfish and/or unfair people in the workplace and other areas of their life. Some may have seen it in their parents or other family members and have adopted it. It's easy for a person's behaviour to 'rub off' on others. People who are frustrated and impatient are often people who are not happy about a situation in their life and they seem to have little or no control over it.

We live in a fast-paced world where everyone wants everything instantly. Have you ever seen the commercial where a woman pops a package of rice or vegetables in the microwave and within 5 to 10 minutes she has a meal, (which, by the way, is not healthy because when the package is heated it releases a chemical into the food. It's best to heat it on a plate). I realize it is quite convenient, because when you come home from work and you're tired, the last thing you want to do is to stand behind a stove for a long period of time. Your family and you are very hungry, so a frozen bag of vegetables with some chicken strips can make a fast stir fry in a few minutes. Sometimes I wonder how our grandparents and great grandparents got through without all the conveniences that we take for granted.

Another place where you see impatient people are on the road. There are those who are always in a hurry. Quote: Remember, it's not only a car that can be recalled by it's maker. At the same time, there are some people who drive way too slow. They're in no hurry. That's when your patience is really tested. When you're in that situation, turn up the music and sing. :)

In addition to being impatient on the road, here are some other things that can cause a person to be impatient and frustrated:

telemarketers who continue to phone you even though you tell them you're not interested in their product or service
too many options when you dial certain phone numbers. Here's a scenario: Machine: "If you're calling about your internet service press 1, phone service press 2" Me: I would press 1 for internet service Machine: "If you're calling about your internet service statement press 1, technical problems press 2" Me: I would press 2 for technical problems Machine: "If you're calling about not being able to sign in press 1, your computer is slow press 2, ..... and it goes on and on. Come on, just give the job to someone and let them direct my call to the appropriate department. I am paying a lot of money for my internet service. You should be able to pay someone to serve me properly.

Machines have replaced human contact and have eliminated many jobs. The world has become very robotic and cold.

Jesus is a good example for us to follow when it comes to practising patience. As christians we should be walking in his footsteps. But then if Jesus had to deal with a situation like that he would skip all those options and go directly to the option he wants. :) Just trying to be funny. Seriously, that's one area where I need more practise, even though some people have told me that I have a lot of patience, that's in certain situations. If I was living in a world where everyone was like Jesus I would be the most patient person.

I've found the following helpful information on "How to Have Patience" by eHow Culture & Society Editor

Life's annoyances and challenges require that we practice patience. But the speed of life often wears our patience thin. Patience is essential because it gives us self-control, helps us be more loving, and achieve what we want. Like a muscle, patience can be strengthened with regular exercise. The right attitude and a little practice captures the power of patience. Read on to learn more.

Study Yourself

Step 1 - Study what triggers your impatience. Notice what happens just before you're ready to blow.

Step 2 - Notice how impatience feels. Identify your own feelings of annoyance or irritation. Find a way to counteract your feelings. For example, breathe slowly or tell yourself, "I have plenty of time."

Step 3 - Discover ways to slow yourself down. Patience comes with a much slower, even pace.

Harness Patience

Step 1 - Laugh at the situation. Find the humor in what is often a ridiculous situation.

Step 2 - Think about all you have accomplished when you are feeling overwhelmed. Don't focus merely on what remains to be done. Ask for help.

Step 3 - Count to ten. If that doesn't work, count to 100.

Step 4 - Put a pebble in your pocket. When you find yourself getting anxious, move the pebble to the other pocket. Continue moving it from one to the other to interrupt the cycle of your anxiety.
Step 5 - Take daydream trips. When you must wait, visualize the most peaceful place you can. See and feel yourself there.

Step 6 - Take a moment to notice three breaths at a stoplight or when the phone rings. Notice how your breath comes and goes without trying to change it.

Step 7 - Reduce or swear off caffeine. Caffeine is a stimulant that can make us nervous, edgy,and jittery.

The link below is an article entitled "The Power of Patience" by Mary Southerland.

http://legacy.pastors.com/rwmt/article.asp?ArtID=11753

Quote: Learn the art of patience. Apply discipline to your thoughts when they become anxious over the outcome of a goal. Impatience breeds anxiety, fear, discouragement and failure. Patience creates confidence, decisiveness and a rational outlook, which eventually leads to success - Brian Adams

Swine flu

2009-04-29T20:59:00.000-07:00

There has been a lot in the news lately about swine flu. It is believed that the virus originated in Mexico. This belief has offended many Mexicans.

I was looking at a video clip (I believe it was a CNN video, I could be wrong) in which a young lady was asked the question on the street in Mexico, "where do you think the swine flu originated"?, she said "it originated in Canada and was passed on to the United States and then to Mexico". She said it as if it was a fact.

According to Wikipedia Encyclopedia, swine flu is common in swine and rare in humans. People who work with swine, especially people with intense exposures, are at risk of catching swine influenza if the swine carry a strain able to infect humans. However, these strains rarely are able to pass from human to human. Rarely, SIV mutates into a form able to pass easily from human to human. In humans, the symptoms of swine flu are similar to those of influenza and of influenza-like illness general, namely chills, fever, sore throat, muscle pains, severe headache, coughing, weakness and general discomfort.

I don’t know if eating pork is related in any way to the swine flu, but I believe pork is not good for human consumption because God forbid us to eat it. The pig is one of the most dirty mammals.

Lev. 11:7 - And the pig, though it has a split hoof completely divided, does not chew the cud; it is unclean for you.

Det. 14:8 - The pig is also unclean; although it has a split hoof, it does not chew the cud. You are not to eat their meat or touch their carcasses.

Here's another reason not to eat pork.

Luke 8: 32 - A large herd of pigs were feeding there on the hillside. The demons begged Jesus to let them go into them, and he gave them permission.

33 - When the demons came out of the man, they went into the pigs, and the herd rushed down the steep bank into the lake and was drowned (For the full story read verse 26-38).

These are some links with information on swine flu:

http://www.phac-aspc.gc.ca/alert-alerte/swine-porcine/faq_rg_swine-eng.php

http://pagingdrgupta.blogs.cnn.com/category/swine-flu/

http://www.nationalpost.com/news/story.html?id=1538091

http://www.cbc.ca/canada/story/2009/04/27/canada-swine-flu027.html

It's time for a vacation

2009-04-27T22:50:00.000-07:00

It's been a long time since I had a vacation. I went to Bermuda with my sister and niece about six years ago, and Cuba about five years ago, which is a very long time. I love Bermuda, especially the pink sandy beaches. I ran into a friend at church while I was there. She attended Kingsway College the same time I did. She was very surprised when she saw me.

The best fish sandwich I ever had was in Bermuda. The bread was fresh from the oven, the fish was fresh with lettuce, tomato with tarter sauce. Yummy...It was good!

While I was there I had a tour inside a cave. I could not believe how crystal clear the water was. After a while I began to feel as if I could not get enough air into my lungs. I was anxious to get outside. I would think twice of going back into a cave.

Since I cannot see myself going on a vacation any time soon, I guess I'd have to settle with just looking at the beaches and pretend I am there.

GOD's Ten Commands

2009-04-26T22:04:00.000-07:00

Exodus 20 KJV:

1. "Thou shalt have no other gods before Me"

2. "Thou shalt not make unto thee any graven image, or any likeness of any thing that is in heaven above, or that is in the earth beneath, or that is in the water under the earth:"

"Thou shalt not bow down thyself to them, nor serve them: for I the Lord thy God am a jealous God, visiting the iniquity of the fathers upon the children unto the third and fourth generation of them that hate me, and shewing mercy unto thousands of them that love me, and keep my commandments"

3. "Thou shalt not take the name of the Lord thy God in vain: for the Lord will not hold him guiltless that taketh his name in vain"

4. "Remember the Sabbath day, to keep it holy, six days shalt thou labour and do all thy work, but the seventh day is the sabbath of the Lord thy God: in it thou shalt not do any work, thou, nor thy son, nor thy daughter, they manservant, nor thy maidservant, nor thy cattle, nor thy stranger that is within thy gates:"

"For in six days the Lord made heaven and earth, the sea, and all that in them is, and rested the seventh day: Wherefore the Lord blessed the Sabbath day, and hallowed it"

5. "Honour thy father and thy mother that thy days may be long upon the land which the Lord thy God giveth thee"

6. "Thou shalt not kill"

7. "Thou shalt not commit adultery"

8. "Thou shalt not steal"

9. "Thou shalt not bear false witness against thy neighbour"

10. "Thou shalt not covet your neighbor's house; Thou shalt not covet thy neighbour's wife, nor his manservant, nor maidservant, nor his ox, nor his ass, nor anything that is thy neighbour's"

The Ten Commandments are like a chain. If one link is broken the chain is not complete. God wrote all Ten Commandments himself.

Some people say that the Sabbath was nailed to the cross. There is nowhere in the Bible where it states that. What was nailed to the cross was the sacrificial or Moses' laws. God never did and never will change any of his Commandments because he said in Matthew 5:18 - "For assuredly, I say to you, till heaven and earth pass away, one jot or one tittle will by no means pass from the law till all is fulfilled." That's why God wrote them on tablets of stone

Some people believe that the Sabbath was made for the Jews, but God said in Matthew 2:27 - Then he said to them, "The Sabbath was made for man, not man for the Sabbath"

Galatians 3:28 - "There is neither Jew nor Greek, slave nor free, male nor female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus"

Daniel 7:25 - "He will speak against the Most High and oppress his saints and try to change the set times and the laws. The saints will be handed over to him for a time, times and half a time"

Hosea 4:6 - "my people are destroyed from lack of knowledge"

http://www.godssabbathtruth.com/

The storms of life

2009-04-25T20:53:00.000-07:00

Like the song says, the anchor holds, though the ship is battered. The anchor holds, though the sails are torn. I have fallen on my knees as I face the raging seas, but the anchor holds in spite of the storm.

These words paint a vivid picture of the storms in my life as my faith in God holds fast, just like the anchor holds, though the ship is battered. I must admit, however, there are times when it seems like my faith is tested beyond my strength and ability. My faith is what gets me through the storms in my life. When going through difficult times we need to lean more on God and trust in him. We all experience storms in our lives from time to time. God allows certain things to happen in our lives to strengthen our faith in him, because it’s only when some people are in difficult times they call upon God.

Some of these storms in our lives are caused by the devil, as in the case of Job. Some are caused by ourselves due to wrong decisions that we make. Some are caused by other people. Despite the cause the devil is behind it all. His very name stands for evil, (d)evil.

It reminds me of Jesus’ disciples who were afraid when they encountered a storm at sea while He slept. They awoke him because they were terrified and thought they were going to drown. He asked them where their faith is. Did Jesus ask them where their faith is because he thinks they should not have worried because of his presence? If so, we should not worry when we go through our own suffering if we have faith in Jesus.

Luke 8: 23 - But as they sailed he fell asleep: and there came down a storm of wind on the lake; and they were filled with water, and were in jeopardy.

24 - And they came to him, and awoke him, saying, Master, master, we perish. Then he arose, and rebuked the wind and the raging of the water: and they ceased, and there was a calm.

25 - And he said unto them, Where is your faith? And they being afraid wondered, saying one to another, What manner of man is this! for he commandeth even the winds and water, and they obey him.

Remember also the story of Job and how satan caused Job to lose everything he had owned, even his sons and livestock, yet Job never cursed God but instead he cursed the day he was born. God allowed Job to be tested, not because there was sin in Job’s life but his suffering became example for us. To read more about the suffering of Job click on this link http://www.easyenglish.info/problems/tpaou01-pbw.htm.

Job 2:3 (Whole Chapter) And the LORD said unto Satan, Hast thou considered my servant Job, that there is none like him in the earth, a perfect and an upright man, one that feareth God, and escheweth evil? and still he holdeth fast his integrity, although thou movedst me against him, to destroy him without cause.

Job 2:7 (Whole Chapter) So went Satan forth from the presence of the LORD, and smote Job with sore boils from the sole of his foot unto his crown.

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I am sitting here at my computer and all of a sudden I felt the house shaking. I got up and looked outside my bedroom window and noticed it was raining lightly and I can see the trees swaying back and forth in the strong wind. I thought to myself - it looks like there’s a storm coming this way. Then I heard my door bell rang. I ran downstairs to see who it could be. As I opened the door slightly a gush of wind forced it out of my hand. It was my neighbour across the street. He told me a number of shingles on my roof had blown off. I put on my coat and ran outside in the rain to see the extent of the damage. All my neighbours were outside looking at my roof. It was quite embarrassing. No houses in close proximity to me were damaged. A few houses around the city were.

It’s ironic, but I was just blogging about the storms in my life and here comes another storm. As if there’s not enough going on in my life. So now I am without a job, an income and now this. What else can happen? Like Job, I will still praise my God!

Is modern technology killing us?

2009-04-21T20:38:00.000-07:00

Is modern technology killing us? I find myself spending more and more hours in front of my computer blogging, surfing, listening to music, reading and sending emails, getting connected with friends and family on Facebook, etc.. It can be quite consuming and addictive.

I’ve gained a few pounds within the last few months and I know it’s not from what I eat. I very seldom eat deserts. I know it’s due to a lack of exercise, which is not good. I keep saying to myself, I have to do more walking, but every morning I get up I always find a reason to go on my computer. Occasionally I would put the TV on one of those radio stations and try and exercise to the music. When I am finished I feel exhilarating and not as guilty for my lack of exercise. Maybe I need to be more self disciplined. I worry because research shows that people who do not get enough exercise tend to develop high blood pressure, heart disease, high cholesterol, diabetes and other diseases. Prevention is better than cure. I am going to use strict self discipline and walk more often.

Below are links for information on diabetes and heart disease.

www.i-sis.org.uk/diabetes.php
www.medicalnewstoday.com

The calf path

2009-04-19T22:27:00.000-07:00

There's a subtle message in this beautiful poem by Sam Walter Foss (1858-1911)

One day, through the primeval wood, A calf walked home, as good calves should;
But made a trail all bent askew, A crooked trail, as all calves do.
Since then three hundred years have fled, And, I infer, the calf is dead.
But still he left behind his trail, And thereby hangs my moral tale.
The trail was taken up next day, By a lone dog that passed that way;
And then a wise bellwether sheep, Pursued the trail o’er vale and steep,
And drew the flock behind him, too, As good bellwethers always do.
And from that day, o’er hill and glade, Through those old woods a path was made,
And many men wound in and out, And dodged and turned and bent about,
And uttered words of righteous wrath, Because ’twas such a crooked path;
But still they followed — do not laugh —The first migrations of that calf,
And through this winding wood-way stalked, Because he wobbled when he walked.

This forest path became a lane, That bent and turned, and turned again.
This crooked lane became a road, Where many a poor horse with his load,
Toiled on beneath the burning sun, And traveled some three miles in one.
And thus a century and a half, They trod the footsteps of that calf.

The years passed on in swiftness fleet. The road became a village street,
And this, before men were aware, A city’s crowded thoroughfare,
And soon the central street was this, Of a renowned metropolis;
And men two centuries and a half, Trod in the footsteps of that calf.
Each day a hundred thousand rout, Followed that zigzag calf about,
And o’er his crooked journey went, The traffic of a continent.
A hundred thousand men were led, By one calf near three centuries dead.
They follow still his crooked way, And lose one hundred years a day,
For thus such reverence is lent, To well-established precedent.

A moral lesson this might teach, were I ordained and called to preach.
For men are prone to go it blind, Along the calf paths of the mind,
And work away from sun to sun, To do what other men have done.
They follow in the beaten track, And out, and in, and forth, and back,
And still their devious course pursue, To keep the paths that others do.
They keep the paths a sacred groove, Along which all their lives they move.
But how the wise old wood gods laugh, Who saw that first primeval calf.
Ah, many things this tale might teach, But I am not ordained to preach.

Dr. Barry Black and Michael Harris

2009-04-18T23:53:00.000-07:00

Kendalwood SDA church in Whitby, Ontario was filled to capacity this weekend with members from other churches in the area. They came to listen to Dr. Barry Black, U.S. Senate Chaplain, and Michael J. Harris. Michael Harris' life-changing testimony and music is touching the lives of many people. This is the first time I’ve listened to both gentlemen. I must say, I truly enjoyed the weekend.

Dr. Black stated in his sermon that the human eyes are never satisfied, no matter how much money or material things a person may possess. To them, there’s always room for more. Most people are naturally selfish.

My thoughts: A man may have a lovely wife or girlfriend beside him, but if another woman passes by, his eyes would be focused on her until she goes out of sight. I'm sure not all men are like that. I am not talking about just looking. (Am I not right ladies?) Why is that? because of SIN, (and I don't mean Social Insurance Number) lol. The human eyes are never satisfied. Jesus said, we are to resist the devil and he will flee from us. Jesus was also tempted many times when he was here on earth but he always resisted the devil.

Have you ever seen, or what appears to be, a loving family - husband, wife and kids. They seem to have everything, lots of money, two cars in the family and sometimes a cottage in the country, yet either one or both of them might be very unhappy and unsatisfied in the relationship. Often time one spouse might tolerate the other's infidelity (most often the wife) in order to remain married. That marriage becomes an emotional prison. In their mind it's better to be married, even if you're unhappy. To others, their happiness is more important than having a 'husband'.

2 Peter 2:14 (Whole Chapter) - They commit adultery with their eyes, and their desire for sin is never satisfied. They lure unstable people into sin, and they are well trained in greed. They live under God’s curse.

Dr. Black is truly an inspiration to listen to. Not only that, he’s also funny, in the sense that he adds humor to his sermon. You can never get bored listening to him.

Following Dr. Black’s sermon was Michael Harris' moving testimony and spirit-filled songs. He touched the hearts of everyone in the congregation. He told us about his transformation from drugs and alcohol to having a close relationship with God. He talked about the accident that night that left his dearly beloved wife, Amber, paralyzed from her neck down. It brought tears to my eyes. That sweet lady has a heart of gold. She was able to forgave her husband for taking away her ability to ever walk again. If we cannot forgive others God cannot forgive us for our sins. That was what changed Michael’s life forever. He tried many, many times to give up drugs and alcohol but did not have the will power to do so. He cried out to God to help him quit the habit and God answered his prayer. Now Michael is winning souls for God with his testimony of how God has changed his life.

His rich baritone voice lifted our once sad hearts to a higher level of joy. Some of his music has a Caribbean flavour, like No Turning Back and Tek Off Yuh Shoes. Some of his other songs include, There’s No God Like Jehovah, Set Free, The Midnight Cry and many more.

Spring cleaning

2009-04-16T22:40:00.000-07:00

Spring is the time when most people give their homes a thorough cleaning, that's why it's called spring cleaning. They go through everything in their basement and garage and get rid of the things they no longer need, or they might have a garage sale.

I think I am going to search around my home for all items that are just sitting there collecting dust. Most of these items are in my basement where I stocked them three years ago when I moved. They might just bring me in some needed cash, especially at a time like now when things are pretty rough for me, financially. I look at some of these items and ask myself, what was I thinking of when I bought this. For instance, a few years ago I bought this treadmill for $100 from a shop that sells used items. I would guess the guy must have bought it for about $40-$50. I've stepped on it maybe three to four times. It's not electric and it takes so much energy to walk on it, since I have to use the strength of my legs to move it. I would almost take anything for it just so I can get it out of my sight.

Let’s see, where do I begin - Ebay might be a good place to start. I’ve never sold anything on Ebay before. Kijiji is another site where I can sell used things. What I cannot sell I will give away. I’ve given away a lot of used and unused items, especially clothes, over the years. I am one that does not like a lot of clutter, so that’s another reason to get rid of them.

There are some people who keeps everything, from bottles to magazines to…., you name it, they keep it. They are considered collectors. There might be a psychological reason for that. I am the opposite. If I don’t need it there’s no need to keep it around. I like open space? Here I go.....
Are you a clean freak or a collector?

Tax deadline

2009-04-15T21:44:00.000-07:00

A lot of people are trying to beat the tax deadline of April 30th. There are those who procrastinate until midnight of the said date and there are the early birds who like to get it over with. If you're expecting a refund I can understand the reason for getting it done early.

I finally had mine prepared today and I must say it left me with a feeling of resentment, which I tried hard to overcome. Have you ever heard the phrase? "There are only two things that are certain in life, death and taxes". I say, there are three things that are certain in life, death, taxes and judgment. Not necessarily, but possibly, in that order - don't forget death taxes.

I came across the following websites with information on taxes:

http://www.taxationlawyers.ca/dealing-the-canada-revenue-agency.asp

http://www.fin.gov.on.ca/english/budget/ontariobudgets/2009/taxsavings/

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The richest man in the world was once the poorest man in the world. Jesus, when he was on earth, did not have a home of his own. He travelled from city to city and town to town spreading the message of God. He often stayed at those who welcome him into their homes.

Matthew 8:20 (Whole Chapter) "And Jesus saith unto him, The foxes have holes, and the birds of the air have nests; but the Son of man hath not where to lay his head".

One day the poor, just like Jesus, will be rich in their new home in heaven. Our riches in heaven are more important than the riches here on earth. Everything on this earth will be destroyed, according to the Bible.

Luke 21:6 (Whole Chapter) As for these things which ye behold, the days will come, in the which there shall not be left one stone upon another, that shall not be thrown down.

Matthew 6:19 (Whole Chapter) "Lay not up for yourselves treasures upon earth, where moth and rust doth corrupt, and where thieves break through and steal".

He conquered death

2009-04-12T21:19:00.000-07:00

According to the Bible - The morning after Jesus had been placed in the tomb, Mary Magdalene went to visit the tomb. It was very early in the morning and it was still dark outside. She saw that the stone had been removed from the tomb and that it was empty. She ran to Peter to inform him what she had seen. Peter and John ran to the tomb to see for themselves. The body of Jesus was not there. The only thing that was there was the cloth that was used to wrap his body. They were confused and could not understand where the body could be. Peter and John left but Mary Magdalene remained. She was crying. She turned and saw a man who asked her why she was crying. She soon realized that the man who was talking to her was Jesus Christ. Jesus had risen from death. Mary Magdalene was the first person to see Jesus.

After his resurrection Jesus met with his disciples on a mountain in Galilee and gave them a command to go and preached to all nations:

Then Jesus came to them and said, "All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age." (Matthew 28:16-20 NIV).

After Jesus had spoken to them, he was taken up into heaven and sat at the right hand of his father. The disciples then went out and preached everywhere, and the Lord worked with them and confirmed his word by the signs that accompanied it. (Mark 16:19-20 NIV).

(See Matthew 24:) - The New Testament explains that Jesus will return in the future to judge the living and the dead and to establish eternal peace.

Some churches baptize people by sprinkling water on the person's head, but that is not really baptism. True baptism is when the person's body is fully immersed in water (which symbolizes the death of Christ) and raising the person up (which symbolizes the resurrection of Christ).

When the Roman soldier pierced Jesus' side with a sword, water came out. That water represents baptism. The bread we take at communion represents Jesus' broken body and the wine represents His blood that was shed for our sins.

The Bible says that unless a man be born of water he cannot enter into the kingdom of God.

John 3:5 - Jesus answered, "Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born of water and of the Spirit, he cannot enter into the kingdom of God".

Paid in Full

2009-04-11T11:39:00.000-07:00

The title of the sermon preached today by Pastor R. Gray was "Paid in Full". What beautiful words to someone who has a huge debt and has no way of paying anything on it, whether partial or in full. Pastor Gray used the analogy of a man who owed a large sum of money to another man. The man to whom the money was owed threatened to kill the man if he did not get his money. A passerby over heard the threat and offered to pay the man the money that was owed to him. Can you imagine the feeling of relief the man that owed the money must have felt.

Picture this other scenario: Imagine yourself crossing the street on a green light - you know you have the right of way. Suddenly this vehicle came speeding and ran the red light. A gentleman standing on the curb saw your life was about to disappear right before his eyes. He was overwhelmed with love and sympathy that he ran across the street and threw you out of the way of the speeding vehicle, putting his life in danger. His love and kindness for you supercede his concern for his own life. He was thrown on the hood of the car. His battered body was further thrown to the ground and was dragged for many feet. Someone on a cell phone called for the peramedics. Within a few minutes they arrived. They rushed the gentleman to the hospital where he spent several months in a coma. Tell me, if the person that was about to get hit by the car was you, what would you have done when you got up from the ground? Would you have dusted yourself off and continued on your way without even looking back, as if nothing happened, or would you have gone over to the gentleman and held his hand while weeping? Would you have gone to visit him every day in the hospital, or would you have pretended it never happened? It took months before the gentleman came out of the coma and was ready to go home to his family. Would you have made that gentleman and his family your very best friends for the rest of your life, or would you prefer not to even hear his name mentioned. It turned out that the gentleman is from a very rich christian family. Perhaps you would have done anything to repay that gentleman for his kind deed, but he wanted nothing more than your friendship and to keep in touch with him and his family to study the word of God. Would you have found the time to do that, or would you have been too busy with other things in your life? - the life that he saved. Isn't that what Jesus did for us - gave his life to save us from sin. All he ask is for us to obey his commandments and to have a relationship with him by spending time to pray and study his word. After what he has done for us, shouldn't we choose him over the devil? What has the devil done for any of us that we would want to follow him.

Many, many years ago on this day, Saturday, (notice I didn't say date) Jesus rested in a tomb after his body succumbed to the abuse of Herod and his soldiers. They gave him vinegar when he was thirsty. They spat in his face, beat him, stuck him with their sword and mocked him. Yet he never got angry. He was very humble. Humility is often mistaken for stupidity. To think he did it all for us. Thank you Jesus!

Proverbs 11:2 (Whole Chapter) Pride leads to disgrace, but with humility comes wisdom.

Proverbs 22:4 (Whole Chapter) True humility and fear of the Lord lead to riches, honor, and long life.

Colossians 3:12 (Whole Chapter) Since God chose you to be the holy people he loves, you must clothe yourselves with tender hearted mercy, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience.

Mark 6:29 (Whole Chapter) And when his disciples heard of it, they came and took up his corpse, and laid it in a tomb.

Here's a video on the crucifixion of Jesus:

www.youtube.com/watch?v=EpFhS0dAduc

A walk to the lake

2009-04-10T21:38:00.000-07:00

It was a beautiful day today. I took a brisk walk down to the lake, which took me approximately 30 to 40 minutes going and coming. On my way there I passed joggers, cyclists and those who were in no hurry, like couples and families, some walking their dogs. I came to a bench and decided to sit for a while as I gazed at the water that looked like a sheet of glass. The story of Jesus walking on the water entered my thoughts. I wondered what feelings went through Peter when he took his first step in response to Jesus' request to come to him. He had to have had an enormous amount of faith to do so. It was not until he took his eyes off from Jesus that he began to sink. I guess we can all identify with that story in terms of our faith.

My thoughts drifted from that story to His Crucifixion - today being Good Friday is a perfect day to reflect on His Crucifixion. I thank God for sending His Son to die for me and for all of us. How can anyone think of Jesus as being a prophet is beyond me. If Jesus did not come to this earth and died for us, how else would we be saved? Matthew 27: 54 states ...."This man truly was the son of God"

Matthew 27:54 (Whole Chapter) - The Roman officer and the other soldiers at the crucifixion were terrified by the earthquake and all that had happened. They said, “This man truly was the Son of God!”

John 19:16 (Whole Chapter) - Then Pilate turned Jesus over to them to be crucified. [ The Crucifixion ] So they took Jesus away.

Mark 15:21 (Whole Chapter) - A passerby named Simon, who was from Cyrene, [ Cyrene was a city in northern Africa.] was coming in from the countryside just then, and the soldiers forced him to carry Jesus’ cross.

Luke 23:48 (Whole Chapter) - And when all the crowd that came to see the crucifixion saw what had happened, they went home in deep sorrow.

The link below is a youtube video of Jesus' crucifixion:

www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wuat5MfE5F8

2 create a website

2009-04-09T23:08:00.000-07:00

I've been searching for more information on ways in which I can improve my blog's revenue. I came across Lisa's website at www.2createawebsite.com/. She has a vast amount of knowledge and information on the subject. Lisa has been in this business since 2003. She seems very sincere and willing to help those who are just learning the ins and outs on the topic. It's like taking a child's hand and leading it through a maze. You can even Download a free website creation tutorial on her website. She has the skills of a teacher. I wonder if she ever was. Thanks Lisa.

The race continues

2009-04-07T23:36:00.000-07:00

Further to my previous post on my computer woes, which never seem to end, I had very little choice but to call a repair man to fix the problem. It ended up costing me more than I anticipated. As if that's not enough to give me a headache, my printer refused to work. I didn't get much done today. As they say, when it rains it pours. I guess everybody has a day when everything seem to go wrong.

I took some time out and reflected on the suffering of Jesus while he was here on earth. I long to be like him. He, a sinless man, endured the suffering for our sins and never complained. We, who are sinners, complains about everything.

I reminded myself that we are running a race, a spiritual race, which feels more like an obstacle course. During our lifetime we encounter hurdles from time to time that we must overcome. An athlete practices long hours, day after day, to become a better runner and to improve his or her strength and performance. To be a winner takes discipline and dedication. One thing that everyone participating in the race has in common is that each person is running, but there could only be one winner. He or she has to have more speed and agility in order to reach the finish line before the others. You do not get the prize because you ran the race, instead you get the prize because you won the race. In order to win you have to get to the finish line before the others. That's when you see the benefit of the long hours of practice. The worse thing is to get close to the finish line and be disqualified for violation of a rule.

Paul compares the Christian life to running a race. As Christians we are running a spiritual race. We would experience difficulties in life but we should not get discouraged. We need to practice and practice by doing good, living by the Word of God and praying continually. The Bible says to pray without ceasing. We should not get distracted by the pleasures of this world but keep our eyes on the finish line - our heavenly home.

1 Corinthians 9:24 – “Know ye not that they which run in a race run all, but one receiveth the prize? So run, that ye may obtain.”

25 - “And every man that striveth for the mastery is temperate in all things. Now they do it to obtain a corruptible crown; but we an incorruptible.”

“It will be worth it all, when we see Jesus. Life’s trials will seem so small, when we see Christ. One glimpse of His dear face, all sorrows will erase. So bravely run the race, till we see Christ.”

Ecclesiastes 9:11 (NKJV)- “The race is not to the swift, Nor the battle to the strong, Nor bread to the wise, Nor riches to men of understanding, Nor favor to men of skill . .”

I found this lovely poem at www.skywriting.net/inspirational/poems/the_spiritual_race.html that says it all. Thanks Eva.

Computer woes

2009-04-05T14:45:00.000-07:00

For the past two days I’ve been having problems with my computer. I was not able to sign in to my blog nor even send emails. I did a scan which showed 9 files were infected. Unfortunately it did not show a list of the files. I could not bring myself to click on the Delete All button as I was afraid that I might have deleted some files that were important. After hours of frustration I decided to phone the manufacturer and the store where I had bought the computer, but they were unable to give me any information or instructions that helped. A gentleman at the store told me to bring it in and they would be able to correct the problem. After thinking about how much it would cost (at a time like now when I don’t have a job) and all the trouble of disconnecting all those wires and reconnecting them, I decided to see what I can do to correct the problem myself. I thought for a moment then decided to restore it back to a few days prior to when my computer started acting funny. It worked!

I couldn’t help but wonder if my frustration made the responsible person any happier. It could be that they are very unhappy with their life and would do anything to make others feel the way they do, or it could be that their heart is full of evil. If they’re trying to prove how smart they are, why not use that knowledge in a positive way – to help others, not to hurt them.

[Psalm 14:2, 3 ] - The LORD saw that the wickedness of man was great in the earth, and that every intention of the thoughts of his heart was only evil continually.

Romans 12: 21 - “Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good”

Happy birthday son!

2009-03-30T21:00:00.000-07:00

Today is my son's birthday. Thirty five years ago on this day my little baby boy was born. That day is very vivid in my mind. After his delivery the nurse laid him on my chest, where he seemed to have found comfort by listening to my heart beats. He must have thought he was still in his comfort zone. He grasped my index finger with his tiny fingers like he did not want to let go. After a while the nurse took him into the room where the newborn babies were kept.

The responsibility of taking care of him has made me a stronger person. He has grown up to be a wonderful young man and has brought much joy to my life.

Six tips on good blogging

2009-03-29T21:36:00.000-07:00

I often wonder what it takes to be a good blogger. Since I started my blog three weeks ago I am enjoying it more and more. I must admit, however, there are times when I do not know what to write about. Because I consider myself to be a spiritual person, I tend to write mostly about spiritual things. It may not appeal to everyone and that's ok. I am sure there are those who are interested in the spiritual content. Since there are other areas of my life besides my spirituality, I also write on topics that pertains to those areas.

I wanted to learn from the pros about blogging and went searching for tips. I was impressed with Shannon Paul's blog on Problogger at www.problogger.net/archives/2009/03/27/six-very-official-ways-to-improve-your-writing/. In her blog she stated there are six things that make a person a good writer, they are:

Stop trying to sound intelligent;
Give yourself permission to write garbage;
Be a ruthless editor;
Use mighty verbs;
Read aloud before posting;
Do what works for you.

Blogging done well, she emphasized, has the power to engage, excite and evangelize people around a business or product like nothing else.

The idea is to hold people's interest so that they would want to follow your blog. It's like a Soap Opera. What one person might find interesting the other might not. From my point of view, people tend to follow blogs that entertain as well as educate.

World Economic Crisis

2009-03-28T21:57:00.000-07:00

I was touched this morning by the sermon - 'Set Thine House in Order'- by Pastor Jeremiah Davis . He talked about the economic crisis in the world today and our need to be prepared for the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ. He said the stage is being set. Bible prophecy is being fulfilled.

Revelation 18: 11 - "And the merchants of the earth shall weep and mourn over her; for no man buyeth their merchandise anymore. The merchandise of gold and silver and precious stones, and of pearls and fine linen, and purple, and silk and scarlet, and all thine wood, and all manner vessels of ivory, and all manner vessels of most precious wood, and of brass, and iron, and marble."

Verse 17 - "For in one hour so great riches is come to nought. And every shipmaster, and all the company in ships, and sailors, and as many as trade by sea, stood afar off."

When a hurricane is predicted to hit a certain area, people are often warned to pack up and leave their homes in order to avoid being injured or killed. Most people would leave. However, there are those who would insist on staying, risking their lives. They do not want to leave their possessions behind - reminds me of Sodom and Gomorrah. Hurricane Katrina was a good example. Katrina caused unprecedented damage to New Orleans in 2005. A large number of people lost their lives. Just like New Orleans residents were warned of Katrina, we are warned of the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ. I don't think we can really imagine what it would be like when that happens.

Matthew 24:36 (NIV) - "No one knows about that day or hour, not even the angels in heaven, nor the Son, but only the Father."

Matthew 24:42-44 (NIV) - "Therefore keep watch, because you do not know on what day your Lord will come. But understand this: If the owner of the house had known at what time of night the thief was coming, he would have kept watch and would not have let his house be broken into. So you also must be ready, because the Son of Man will come at an hour when you do not expect him."

Let's take heed and be prepared for our Lord Jesus Christ.

Lemon rice with golden raisins and almonds

2009-03-27T21:31:00.000-07:00

I came across this recipe that is heart healthy. I will be trying it out this weekend.

Ingredients

1/2 cup slivered almonds, coarsely chopped
2 tsp. lemon zest
3 tbs. lemon juice
1 cup uncooked brown rice
1/4 cup chopped onions
1 3/4 cup unsalted chicken broth
1/2 tsp. ground cinnamon
1/4 tsp. ground nutmeg
1 tbs. trans fat-free margarine
1/3 cup water1/2 cup golden raisins
1 cup frozen peas
5 tbs. honey

Directions

Preheat the oven to 325 F. Lightly coat a baking sheet with cooking spray.
Spread the almonds on a baking sheet and bake, stirring occasionally until golden, about 10 minutes. Transfer immediately to a plate to cool.
Add water to the bottom of a double boiler.
In the top section, place the lemon zest, lemon juice, rice, broth, onions, nutmeg, cinnamon and margarine. Heat the double boiler, stirring occasionally.
Cover and simmer for 30 minutes or until the liquid is absorbed.
In a small saucepan, add the water and raisins. Bring to a simmer, cover and cook for 5 minutes. Add the peas and simmer an additional minute. Add the raisin and pea mixture to the rice in the double boiler and simmer until all the liquid is absorbed, about 15 to 20 minutes more.
Mix and fluff the rice mixture and transfer it to a serving dish. Sprinkle with toasted almonds and drizzle with honey. Serve immediately

Our destination depends on our choice

2009-03-25T23:46:00.000-07:00

As I tarried along this morning on my usual walk around the neighborhood, I tried to tolerate the cold breeze as it beats against my face. I gazed at the dried plants and shrubs, their roots buried deep into the frozen ground waiting for the warm temperature so they can come alive again after a long and harsh winter. As I moved swiftly along, anxious to get back into my warm home, I couldn’t help but notice the figurines in people’s gardens. There was one that caught my attention, it was a little boy and girl sitting on a bench with the boy’s arm around the girl’s shoulder as he points to something far away. There was another one with a little boy carrying a little girl on his back. I thought they were so cute. The melodious sound of the chimes on people’s porches, as the wind tossed them back and forth, stole my attention.

As I continued to travel on my journey, it reminded me that life is a spiritual journey. We could walk that journey either on a broad and smooth road with no restrictions nor rules (everyone do as they please) which leads to hell and damnation, or it could be on the rough and narrow road with lots of rules and restrictions, which leads to the kingdom of God and eternal life. The choice is ours. Many people choose the broad road simply because it’s much easier. Our destination depends on our choice.

Knowing that Christ Jesus came to this earth for the purpose of dying for our sins and to redeem us is enough reason for me to choose the rough and narrow road. Being a Christian is the most difficult thing in the world. Only with God’s help can we overcome temptation and be successful as Christians. That’s why we need to put on the whole armor of God, which is his word. We're fighting a spiritual war against the devil. God's word is the only weapon against the devil. Therefore we need to pray and read his word daily so that we can be protected.

Ephesians 6: 11

Put on all of God's armor so that you will be able to stand firm against all strategies of the devil.

Ephesians 6: 13

Therefore, put on every piece of God's armor so you will be able to resist the enemy in the time
of evil. Then after the battle you will still be standing firm.

Pineapple torte cake

2009-03-24T22:21:00.000-07:00

I haven't baked anything in a long time, simply because I am trying desperately to keep the weight off. When I was in my twenties or even thirties I could have eaten anything. Times have changed. Whenever I baked a pineapple tote cake it would last only a day. My son would have a second and a third slice. Now that he is on his own I seem to bake less. I think it's time I bake one again, but this time instead of putting sugar I would substitute Splenda, since my mother cannot have sugar. She would be very happy. Here's the recipe:

Pineapple Torte Cake

2 cups flour
1 ½ cups sugar
1 tsp . baking soda
2 tsps. cinnamon
½ tsp. salt
3 eggs
½ cup oil
1 tbs. lemon juice
¾ cup milk
1 tsp. vanilla essence
1 cup crushed pineapple (well drained)
2 cups carrots
1 cup flake coconut
1 cup finely chopped almonds

Add lemon juice to milk in cup and set aside to sour
Sift together all dry ingredients - flour, sugar, cinnamon and salt
Beat together eggs, oil, sour milk and vanilla essence
Add sifted dry ingredients and mix well
Sitr in pineapple, carrots, coconut and almonds
Pour batter into greased and floured pan and bake at 350 degrees Farenheit for 1 hour or until cake springs back.

A good way to start the day

2009-03-23T22:17:00.000-07:00

After I sat down this morning to have breakfast, I turned on the TV. Sanford and Son was on, a sitcom from the 70s. I had to be careful not to choke while laughing, as Fred, looking like Mohammed Ali, bouncing on his feet and making fists at the man that Donna (Fred’s fiancée) brought along with her when Fred invited her to dinner at his home. The man, apparently, is a patient who is in her care. The man makes it obvious he thinks of Donna as more than his nurse. Lamont tries to turn Fred’s mind against Donna after she told Fred she’s ashamed of his behaviour and left with the man. A few minutes later Donna returned and gave back the engagement ring to Fred. He later told her how much he loves her. She obviously was flattered. While they were embracing each other, Fred made a threatening fist to Lamont behind Donna's back after he walked in on them. Lamont then left.

That bit of comedy, along with the soothing sound of jazz and the beautiful sunshine, and above all a prayer to my Creator, put me in a good mood to start the day. The rest of the day went smoothly. Tonight I looked at Dancing with the Stars. I have a few favourites, Melissa is one of them, perhaps my most favourite. Some, I think, should not be there.

Advice for the unemployed

2009-03-22T22:35:00.000-07:00

I just read in Lee Anna's blog at http://www.ourwholelife.blogspot.com/ some advice given by experts to those who are unemployed. Being unemployed myself, I would certainly try to follow them, at least those that I can. It says #1 Reinvent yourself and be willing to follow a new career path - That is something I've been trying to do. I am tired of playing on the legal field. #2 Schedule physical activity into your daily routine. Exercise helps to fend off depression - I must admit, I am lacking in that department, although not totally. I had a walk yesterday and again this morning. I am getting better with time. #3 Redo your resume - That I've accomplished. I've attended a 3-day workshop on Job Search, which was very helpful. It has helped me to be more confident and motivated. #4 Network, Network. - I did a bit of that, no luck and #5 Relax, Relate, Release - Relax, I try to be. The rest I have to work on.

I put my trust in God and pray that he will provide me with, not only a job, but the right one. God has promised to supply our needs if we abide in him. He does not lie. It's against his nature.

Philippians 4:19

"But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus".

The Day of Rest

2009-03-21T15:36:00.000-07:00

Thank God for the Sabbath Day! God loves us so much that he not only sent his son to die for us, but he gave us a day on which we can rest from all our toils and labour. It's the only day that I can refrain from any kind of work and not feel guilty. I have his permission.

I went to church this morning. The pastor talked about longing for peace in a world of turmoil. He said that our leaders can either create wars or try to achieve peace, but because we live in a world of sin, that peace would not last. Only God, the Prince of Peace, can bring lasting peace. Most of us long for lasting peace. Sitting on a white sandy beach looking at the waves rolling towards the shore and looking at the blue skies gives us a feeling of peace, walking in a beautiful garden also gives us a feeling of peace, but that peace does not last. In the new earth there would be lasting peace.

I went for a long walk this afternoon, which is long over due. I said that because I spend countless hours during the week on the computer sending out resumes and updating my blog. I really should be taking a long walk every day. It's good for my health. As the temperature gets warmer I most certainly would be doing more walking and gardening.

Depressing News

2009-03-19T19:15:00.000-07:00

Every time I listen to the news it leaves me feeling sad. It’s either someone got shot, someone died in a house fire, a plane crash, an innocent girl was raped and her life destroyed forever, and it goes on and on…. There is hardly any good news. Although it makes me sad, I remind myself that these things will happen more frequently in the last days, as the Bible predicted.

Matthew 24: 6

“And ye shall hear of wars and rumours of wars: see that ye be not troubled; for all these things must come to pass, but the end is not yet”

“Do you see all these things?” he asked, “Truly I tell you, not one stone here will be left on another; everyone will be thrown down”

If we trust in God and live by the Bible we have nothing to fear.

Luke 12: 32

"Do not be afraid, little flock, for your Father has been pleased to give you the kingdom”

“Behold I am coming soon! Blessed is he who keeps the words of the prophecy in this book”

Kingsway College

2009-03-17T23:30:00.000-07:00

When I was a child my dad used to wake us up every morning to kneel beside him to pray before he goes to work. He would often teach us to memorize verses from the Bible. While half asleep, I and my older sisters would gently slide down from the bed onto our knees, while my younger sisters remained in bed. My mother, who grew up as a Catholic, never attended church. My father grew up as an Anglican, but later became a Seventh Day Adventist after he marry my mother. A few years after my father died my mother finally decided to get baptized in the Seventh Day Adventist church. A decision, she said, she never regretted. After my father's death, my sisters and I stopped going to church. I guess we were trying to prove that we can make our own decisions - typical teenagers. It could be also that we missed our father going to church with us.

I came to Canada in 1970 on a student visa through the help of my lovely aunt (my father’s sister). I attended Kingsway College in Oshawa www.kingswaycollege.on.ca/admin/ with my cousin (her daughter). While living on campus we had to attend morning service before classes. After service my cousin and I, along with some friends, would walk over to the antique-looking cafeteria for breakfast. One of the items on the breakfast menu was toast with peanut butter and apple sauce on top - which was called Vandamin. I have no idea where that name came from. We also had to attend 'vespers' on Friday evenings and devine service on Sabbath mornings. Sometimes in the fall, on Saturday nights we would gather in the valley under the tall maple trees and sing songs of praise. Even though it was a bit cold outside, our bodies were kept warm by the fire and our hearts were kept warm by our singing. I have nothing but good memories of Kingsway College. It has brought me back to the Lord. My best girlfriend and I got baptized together. Unfortunately, after a few years I again stopped attending church. I began to experience that void and empty feeling again. It was then I realized the only way I can feel at peace is to have a relationship with the Lord. Therefore I started praying and reading the Bible more often and attending church. Going to church alone cannot save anyone. It's our relationship with Him and our obedience to His word. I still have problems like everyone else, but now I know I have a Father who is always there to help me through my struggles.

Our connection to God

2009-03-16T17:12:00.000-07:00

We are all made up of four components – physical, emotional, mental and spiritual. We need the proper food to be nourished physically. We need love and care to satisfy our emotional needs. We need to keep learning in order to gain knowledge and to stimulate our brain. We need to pray and read the Bible (God’s holy words) to be nourished spiritually. When we neglect to nourish one of these components there’s bound to be a negative result. We either get weak and sick, feel lonely, lack confidence and knowledge, low self esteem and an empty void feeling. In praying and reading the Bible daily we maintain a relationship with our Creator, the One who breathed the breath of life in us. According to the Bible, he "beathed the breath of life in man and man became a living soul". Therefore, there’s a part of God is in each and every one of us, regardless of our differences or status.